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Post subject: New here and need some advice!!  Posted: Wed Sep 12, 2007 12:17 pm |
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Hi everyone! Since I am new here I'm asking you to bare with me with this post because I'm not really sure how to convey my situation. Okay here it goes.....I'm in a relationship with someone and have been now for almost 9 years. He was gone for nearly 4 of them and has been back home now for close to 2 years. Since he has been home we have not seen eye to eye on anything! We argue over everything! A few months ago I met someone that I connected with immediately, I know that I won't be getting any applauses here when I tell you that he is married, but I think that is an important fact in all of this. He tells me that his marriage is only about the kids and until they are 18 he doesn't plan on leaving. I believe him at times but then there are other times that I think I could be lovestruck and not seeing this for what it is. I'm not in love with my guy the way I use to be and it has nothing to do with meeting my new friend. That feeling has been gone for years but he isn't willing to accept it which makes it a bit hard. My new friend and I fell hard for eachother....very hard! I enjoy every minute I can get with him although it is limited most of the time. I don't know how to deal with this whole situation but I do know that I feel wonderful when I'm with him and I don't want that to end.
Is it true that there is a good chance that if we ever decided to continue our relationship should he decide to leave his wife, that he will probably cheat on me also? Has anyone been in this type of situation before? I welcome any advice on this please!
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Post subject: Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:30 pm |
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I would say the chances that either one or maybe even both of you have a pretty strong chance of straying again in the future. Not always, but the chance does remain. If you are really done with the relationship that you are in, dont jump ship if your new guy is not ready to do the same. Certainly, he cant be OK with having an "affair"
Maybe neither one of you could help that you fell for each other, but you can make a conscious effort to do the right thing going forward. Always try and act with integrity in everything that you do.
Good luck!
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Jenna CA | Posted at 6:30pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | Why can't we all be as lucky to find someone to love and who loves us back unconditionally. I praise you for following your hearts and falling in love with your soul mate no matter who they may be, male, female, black, white, hispanic etc. It shouldnt matter as long as you find your true love. Good luck to you all! |
melanie school | Posted at 3:46pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | i am very sorry but i can't see the excitment with liking someone of your own sex, i just don't see the fasination. |
Leslie Home | Posted at 1:57am on Thursday, November 13th, 2008 | i've never been in a relationship, but i'm gonna try looking for a guy that's a taurus or a scorpio and see how it works out. :) |
chante Location unknown | Posted at 2:57am on Wednesday, November 12th, 2008 | i fell in love with a gemini and im a cancer and this is soooooo true about him! like wow. |
wotz love here | Posted at 7:28pm on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | hey ppl....i dnt understand why boys only wont girlz for one thing....us girls wont love only |
confusedgirl ny | Posted at 3:27am on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | i have for anyone who might be able to figure guys out. i was at a company function and met a coworker. i secretly think he is cute but never told him. he has known me for awhile but we never talked like this before. i was a little drunk so i told him about my life, my previous relationship and how i was sad about what had happened in my life. he consoled me and then we went outside the building and he kissed me! i was so drunk that i barely remember it. then i left and went back to my life. later i called him because someone at work asked who the guy was that i was dancing with at the function. i then remembered and wanted to find out what exactly happened so i called him. i said that i was sorry for whatever i had said to him and that i can barely remember what had happened. then i asked him if something had happened between us and he that not to worry nothing happened. why did he lie? do you think he thought i was embarrassed of him,or did he say that because he didn't really like me? or maybe because he didn't want me to worry? can anyone give me insight as to what could have been going on in his mind? |
Liz Location unknown | Posted at 3:35pm on Monday, November 10th, 2008 | Keeping straight for the nation? Really? I can't believe there's so many ignorant people that exist. I was married under prop 8 (0r prop HATE) with a partner the past 5 months, I've been with for 10 years. It's ignorant people like this that have caused me to lose that marriage legally.
Go screw yourselves. |
JITENDER KUMAR WADHAWAN DELHI | Posted at 10:24am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I DON'T HAVE ANY COMMENT |
Cat Pat Home | Posted at 5:50am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I really don't see why ppl have a problem with same sex relationships.... I have some acquaintances that are gay and I really resent anyone who is against that and say that its wrong to other people... Keep your personal opinions to yourself... |
melanie school | Posted at 2:40pm on Friday, November 7th, 2008 | i think that you are disgusting!
how could you do that?!
I'M KEEPING IT STRAIGHT FOR THE NATION. |
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