need help please!!!

kellyann · **Joined:** Sun Aug 20, 2006 6:26 am **Posts:** 1

Hi, my name is kelly and I am 22 years old. Im having some trouble with my now ex fiancé, the story is that we met when I was 15 I got pregnant at 16 with my son who is now 5.our relationship has always been ok and we were so greatful that we actually stayed together. A year ago we had our daughter and things were looking good for our future. I had my family already. He asked me to marry him about 10 months ago and we were going to get married this coming up weekend. One day he came to me and said he didn’t love me and he didn’t want to get married,I don’t understand why he would say all this because he never acted like he didn’t love me before this. So he called off the wedding and about a week after he left he said he changed his mind and he wanted to try again.but then the next day he said he made a mistake by telling me he wanted to try again. I suggested counseling and he said no. he is adamant that he doesn’t want to be with me. About a week ago I found out he already has a new girlfriend and brought her around my kids which really made me mad. After he left we got in a fight and he ended up hitting me and I called the police on him. I don’t understand why he is being like this he would never hit me before but now he hates me so much. Our relationship was not bad at all. Can you give me some insight on whats going on?

Thank you,kelly

loneknight5 · **Posted:** Sun Sep 03, 2006 7:58 pm

Just my two cents as a man.

I would say that he hates you because he had already met this new girlfriend before ending things with you and he is feeling guilty about that. If he can convince himself you are a <insert nasty name here> and hate you then he can excuse his actions.

Now on to the hitting you thing. No that is so wrong I dont care what the situation is. He needs to be locked up for that. Just try to do the kid exchanges through parents or meet in a neutral area. And keep the conversation to a minimum. You cant really do much about him having his new girlfriend around them because she is going to be a part of his life for a time.

It sucks when the end of a relationship comes out of nowhere. It takes time to get past that. Just worry about you and the kiddies and let him do his own thing. And above all...dont take him back when this new girl dumps his ass.

Cheers,
Craig

xx_tinaUK_xx · **Posted:** Thu Sep 21, 2006 11:48 pm

if he treats you badly and introduces your children to strangers whom you do not know or trust you should stay away from him, and you should have called the police if he hits you. If he hit you think of how he make take his anger out on your son and present the situation to the courts.

need help please!!!

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