Marriage problems...

ces · **Joined:** Thu May 31, 2007 10:57 am **Posts:** 3

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jossi · **Joined:** Wed Jun 06, 2007 11:29 am **Posts:** 3

i have almost the same problem as you.I'm married for a year and my husband and I are together for 8 years.He's a very nice man and he is faithful too and so I am.For the last few months I'm very attracted to another man and it's very confusing.I can't cheat on my husband because I feel that it's very wrong and I feel guilty.But still it does not go away and I dont't know what to do.I wonder why is this happening and mess up my life.

ces · **Joined:** Thu May 31, 2007 10:57 am **Posts:** 3

Yes, it' s very confusing! My feelings for the other guy won't go away either! Maybe it's like an 8-year itch thing?

lovestruck666 · **Joined:** Wed Jun 06, 2007 7:40 pm **Posts:** 1

You are not alone, I have been married for only a year, but we have been together for 6 years previous. I have completely fell in love with my best friend. My husband is a good man and probably many woman's "ideal husband" but I feel more and more each day that we just dont belong together. We are so different and have different interests. My best friend and I have so much in common and recently have grown closer. I think its just something that happens when it dawns on you that you are actually going to be with the same person for the rest of your life, you start looking for a way out instinctively.

jossi · **Joined:** Wed Jun 06, 2007 11:29 am **Posts:** 3

The worst thing is that my husband is nice and caring , all his family is nice and we don't have any serious problems and all these things make me feel very bad.I mean if we had problems at least I would have an excuse for it because I'm trying to find a reason but I can't..I don't know if it is what you say,looking for a way out instinctively or maybe it just can happen to anyone

ces · **Joined:** Thu May 31, 2007 10:57 am **Posts:** 3

I am so glad to hear that I'm not the only one going through this! It's such a tough sitiuation....I still haven't figured out to handle this. I recently told my husban that I needed some time apart to feel what it was like to miss him and want to be with him again. The whole idea made him worried about our relationship. Maybe the fact that I'm even having such strong feelings for another person means that something is not right with my current relationship or maybe I'm just changing and the relationship that I was once happy with is no longer what appeals to me?

jossi · **Joined:** Wed Jun 06, 2007 11:29 am **Posts:** 3

I agree with you that maybe there is something wrong with my relationship something that is not clear or something wrong with my feelings for my husband.But this whole idea scares me because it changes everything I beleived for the last years.Propably it's the best explanation though.
What you told your husband could make him suspect that maybe there is another man.As far as I know men's mind usually goes there when you tell them that you need time alone.I think you should be carefull because you are not sure what you want to do.
My case is I'm attracted to a man that I don't know well.He sells newspapers and cigarretes(I don't know how you call it my native is not english)and I buy cigarretes from him sometimes.I really think he likes me he gives me all the right signs.The way he looks at me is unbelievable.I try to hide it when I talk to him but I don't know if it works,because I don't know what to do and I believe that if I let him understand it will be hard to stop it.It's such a mess and it makes me feel good and bad at the same time.

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