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Vivian
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Post subject: Same type problem  Posted: Sun Aug 05, 2007 5:18 pm |
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In reading some of the postings I see that I'm not alone. What a relief! I'm new to the site and having problems with my marriage. Our anniversay is coming up - 4 years - and with each day I'm not sure we're going to make it!
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strawberry
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Post subject: It happens Posted: Mon Aug 20, 2007 4:31 pm |
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I have been married to my husband for 23 years, We just took a trip with some friends and I got to know this guy and he got to know me. I ended up that we have so much in common. He told my husband I was so fun to be with. I have caught him looking at me often. I have been thinking of him alot. We both like sports and out door things. My husband doesnt like these things. I have some problems but not to serious.
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Post subject: Posted: Mon Sep 24, 2007 12:43 pm |
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First off, i awnt to recommend a book to you guys. it is caleld the 5 Love Languages. It is an amazing book. What I would like to say without sounding like I am preaching, is that I have come to the understanding that Love is a Conscious Choice. It is not easy. For the first year of a new relationship-maybe 2 years, we are all subjected to the "In Love Experience"
It pulls us along, with no warning, we usually do not have coherent thought, everything is easy and perfect, and we see this imperfect person, well, as perfect.
Then, that "newness" fades, reality sets in, choices get harder. This does not mean we have fallen out of love. It means that the time has now come for us to start doing the real work. Being "In Love" is different from real love.
Real love is a conscious effort. It is a choice. You are responsible for maknig that choice. you have to "choose" to be faithful. You need to choose whether or not to love this person.
That book i referenced earlier, about the 5 love languages, is one of the best books I have ever read. hands down. It talks about the different love languages, and what yours is, and how to find out what your spouses lovel anguage is. It may sound cheesy, but it really changed my interactions with my hubby. FLirting is nice, its always nice to see other people interested in you, but there is always that line. I always try to act with honesty and integrity at all times, given the fact that I would never want to break my husbands trust, or see him hurt, or insecure.
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Love in itself is perfect. It is what imperfect people do it that makes it hurt so much....
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Jenna CA | Posted at 6:30pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | Why can't we all be as lucky to find someone to love and who loves us back unconditionally. I praise you for following your hearts and falling in love with your soul mate no matter who they may be, male, female, black, white, hispanic etc. It shouldnt matter as long as you find your true love. Good luck to you all! |
melanie school | Posted at 3:46pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | i am very sorry but i can't see the excitment with liking someone of your own sex, i just don't see the fasination. |
Leslie Home | Posted at 1:57am on Thursday, November 13th, 2008 | i've never been in a relationship, but i'm gonna try looking for a guy that's a taurus or a scorpio and see how it works out. :) |
chante Location unknown | Posted at 2:57am on Wednesday, November 12th, 2008 | i fell in love with a gemini and im a cancer and this is soooooo true about him! like wow. |
wotz love here | Posted at 7:28pm on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | hey ppl....i dnt understand why boys only wont girlz for one thing....us girls wont love only |
confusedgirl ny | Posted at 3:27am on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | i have for anyone who might be able to figure guys out. i was at a company function and met a coworker. i secretly think he is cute but never told him. he has known me for awhile but we never talked like this before. i was a little drunk so i told him about my life, my previous relationship and how i was sad about what had happened in my life. he consoled me and then we went outside the building and he kissed me! i was so drunk that i barely remember it. then i left and went back to my life. later i called him because someone at work asked who the guy was that i was dancing with at the function. i then remembered and wanted to find out what exactly happened so i called him. i said that i was sorry for whatever i had said to him and that i can barely remember what had happened. then i asked him if something had happened between us and he that not to worry nothing happened. why did he lie? do you think he thought i was embarrassed of him,or did he say that because he didn't really like me? or maybe because he didn't want me to worry? can anyone give me insight as to what could have been going on in his mind? |
Liz Location unknown | Posted at 3:35pm on Monday, November 10th, 2008 | Keeping straight for the nation? Really? I can't believe there's so many ignorant people that exist. I was married under prop 8 (0r prop HATE) with a partner the past 5 months, I've been with for 10 years. It's ignorant people like this that have caused me to lose that marriage legally.
Go screw yourselves. |
JITENDER KUMAR WADHAWAN DELHI | Posted at 10:24am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I DON'T HAVE ANY COMMENT |
Cat Pat Home | Posted at 5:50am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I really don't see why ppl have a problem with same sex relationships.... I have some acquaintances that are gay and I really resent anyone who is against that and say that its wrong to other people... Keep your personal opinions to yourself... |
melanie school | Posted at 2:40pm on Friday, November 7th, 2008 | i think that you are disgusting!
how could you do that?!
I'M KEEPING IT STRAIGHT FOR THE NATION. |
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