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Post subject: I've never told anyone about this, and I really need help Posted: Fri Sep 28, 2007 5:36 pm |
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I like sex way more than my husband does, and it's a big problem for us. I absolutely loathe bringing up the subject, but it's important to communicate, right? He totally shuts down when talk about it, and I don't blame him because it must make him feel totally emasculated. But I don't know what else to do!
I can't live like this, feeling like my husband doesn't find me attractive or desirable, and feeling privately embarrassed for being "the horny one" in our relationship. So when the dreaded topic arises, I suggest that maybe if he got some exercise (he currently gets none) he would want sex more. (This bugs him intensely, but I would bet my house that it's true!) Or I ask him if he thinks I've gained too much weight (15 pounds since we met 6 years ago; but he's gained about 40!)-- he always says that's irrelevant (which is a good answer, I suppose!). Then again, could his apparent disinterest in sex be the result of a stuffy English upbringing, while I'm a sexually unrepressed Canadian?
When we're in bed he's certainly great at his job-- I never really liked sex with anyone before him. But my wanting it nearly everyday (I don't ever reveal that!) while he wants it less than once a week and often rejects my advances, makes me feel just generally unhappy in my marriage.
I really need some help before I lapse into depression. Should I be trying to seduce him more often? If so, how should I do it? And very importantly, how do I stop myself from feeling humiliated or disheartened by his rejections?? I would prefer to have some method of addressing this problem that DOESN'T include having to talk about it, because that tends to be completely counterproductive!
Please, please let there be a woman out there who has been through this and can help me stop feeling like I'm going to end up divorced... And I would do anything for a sympathetic man's input...
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Jenna CA | Posted at 6:30pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | Why can't we all be as lucky to find someone to love and who loves us back unconditionally. I praise you for following your hearts and falling in love with your soul mate no matter who they may be, male, female, black, white, hispanic etc. It shouldnt matter as long as you find your true love. Good luck to you all! |
melanie school | Posted at 3:46pm on Wednesday, November 19th, 2008 | i am very sorry but i can't see the excitment with liking someone of your own sex, i just don't see the fasination. |
Leslie Home | Posted at 1:57am on Thursday, November 13th, 2008 | i've never been in a relationship, but i'm gonna try looking for a guy that's a taurus or a scorpio and see how it works out. :) |
chante Location unknown | Posted at 2:57am on Wednesday, November 12th, 2008 | i fell in love with a gemini and im a cancer and this is soooooo true about him! like wow. |
wotz love here | Posted at 7:28pm on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | hey ppl....i dnt understand why boys only wont girlz for one thing....us girls wont love only |
confusedgirl ny | Posted at 3:27am on Tuesday, November 11th, 2008 | i have for anyone who might be able to figure guys out. i was at a company function and met a coworker. i secretly think he is cute but never told him. he has known me for awhile but we never talked like this before. i was a little drunk so i told him about my life, my previous relationship and how i was sad about what had happened in my life. he consoled me and then we went outside the building and he kissed me! i was so drunk that i barely remember it. then i left and went back to my life. later i called him because someone at work asked who the guy was that i was dancing with at the function. i then remembered and wanted to find out what exactly happened so i called him. i said that i was sorry for whatever i had said to him and that i can barely remember what had happened. then i asked him if something had happened between us and he that not to worry nothing happened. why did he lie? do you think he thought i was embarrassed of him,or did he say that because he didn't really like me? or maybe because he didn't want me to worry? can anyone give me insight as to what could have been going on in his mind? |
Liz Location unknown | Posted at 3:35pm on Monday, November 10th, 2008 | Keeping straight for the nation? Really? I can't believe there's so many ignorant people that exist. I was married under prop 8 (0r prop HATE) with a partner the past 5 months, I've been with for 10 years. It's ignorant people like this that have caused me to lose that marriage legally.
Go screw yourselves. |
JITENDER KUMAR WADHAWAN DELHI | Posted at 10:24am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I DON'T HAVE ANY COMMENT |
Cat Pat Home | Posted at 5:50am on Sunday, November 9th, 2008 | I really don't see why ppl have a problem with same sex relationships.... I have some acquaintances that are gay and I really resent anyone who is against that and say that its wrong to other people... Keep your personal opinions to yourself... |
melanie school | Posted at 2:40pm on Friday, November 7th, 2008 | i think that you are disgusting!
how could you do that?!
I'M KEEPING IT STRAIGHT FOR THE NATION. |
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