ok so my bf and i have been going out for just about two years now and everything is great... for the most part....

i see him all the time which i love doing and i know he does too, but recently i have been so jealous i'm afriad its ruining our relationship.

he met a girl at work about a month ago now she has a serious bf too let me tell you, but she says she really likes my bf as a friend because her bf goes to another school and such and she likes a male figure around to keep her company. I don't mind him having girls as friends but this one is different.

she text messages him at least 10 times a day when he doesn't have free text messaging and he yells at me when i do it! So i got mad one day and he cancelled it so she didn't do it anymore.

she also calls him on the phone 2-3 times a day to walk home from class with her or to hang out. He doens't have to go to every class because some you just don't have to and she gets mad because then he can't walk home with her. He also talks to her online all the time and i don't understand why he needs to talk to her all the time thats the main problem.

he sees her twice a week at work for a total of 10 hours there together why does she need to constantly talk to him. She thinks i hate her and admitted that her bf would be mad at her if he knew how much she talked to him too so what the heck why does she have to do it.

She gets mad when he is with me, but i am his gf so it really bothers me.

I know he wouldn't cheat on me ever and thats not the problem, but my problem is why does he need to talk to her all the time too, he denies it and tries to make me feel better by saying shes annoying and such, but i think he likes the attention she gives him, but i dont' know.

he doesn't hide most of it from me because he hates lying which is really good, but i'm just so confused, i can't help being so jealous and when i know hes walking home with her or talking to her i get so mad my stomach hurts and then we fight, but i don't know how to stop being so jealous. I want to meet her to see if maybe we can be friends so i can feel comfortable about this , but she doesn't want to meet me because she thinks i'll beat her up when she is literally twice my size, plus i would never fight in my lifetime.

what should i do? am i being crazy or should i be a concerned and jealous gf?

please someone reply i could really use the advice!

you are not psycho.

let me repeat. You are not psycho.

on the other hand, don't worry over much. if you trust him, and your relationship, then show that. Discuss your concerns with him, in a calm and rational manner.

what this girl is doing does not sound healthy, but in the long run, both she and your bf will realize it. for now, don't worry too much.

I have actually gone through similar situations, but they worked out in the end, and I am sure that this will for you, as well.