I found my soulmate in Russia, and can't bring her here.

d1a2l3e4 · **Posted:** Thu Aug 12, 2004 11:10 pm

I met my soulmate while chatting online. We started sending mail back and forth, and before we knew it, we were madly in love with each other. But of course, there's always something that will keep us apart. She comes from a poor family, and I'm not working at the moment. I'm kind of in a transitional phase of my life, and finding her was unexpected. My problem is, neither of us has the funds it would take to bring her to me. And I'm afraid if the waiting is too long, she may get tired of waiting. I really don't want to lose her now that I've found her. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I've searched for years for my soulmate. Now that I found her, I couldn't stand to lose her over anything. I guess I needed to vent a little because I'm frustrated that it seems only people who have money can have the love they want. Anyway, if anybody has any advice or comments they could share with me, it would be much appreciated.

Thanks

emzy · **Joined:** Tue Sep 21, 2004 3:51 pm **Posts:** 2

hiya,
im kinda in the same situation and its hard im sorry i have no advice for you i only wanted to wish u luck and i hope it works out for u if its true love it will work out fine:) gd luck xxxxx

ZAXA-2005 · **Joined:** Sun Nov 14, 2004 2:39 pm **Posts:** 1

Hi,

I am in the same situation as you
I'm a student, and I have no money neither
You know what I did?
Work, work, work
Yes, I'm studying at the same time, and work, but you know what?
I was able to go to her, in her country (I live in North-America and she is in Asia) for 2 wonderful months
And I am working right now to go to her again, but this time, for studying
Never give up, everything is possible if you are willing to work hard
Do what you must do, and be ready to work a lot for your love
Which country are you from?
Well, anyway, if you work hard for 2 months, or maybe 3, you will be able to visit her for sure, and you should look to study abroad (if you are a student)
Else you should look to work there, if she can't come (but talk about it with her, like who should move where...)
Consider everything, and never give up, ok?

welsh_Mikey_17 · **Posted:** Wed Dec 01, 2004 5:41 pm

d1a2l3e4 wrote:

I met my soulmate while chatting online. We started sending mail back and forth, and before we knew it, we were madly in love with each other. But of course, there's always something that will keep us apart. She comes from a poor family, and I'm not working at the moment. I'm kind of in a transitional phase of my life, and finding her was unexpected. My problem is, neither of us has the funds it would take to bring her to me. And I'm afraid if the waiting is too long, she may get tired of waiting. I really don't want to lose her now that I've found her. Maybe I'm just paranoid, but I've searched for years for my soulmate. Now that I found her, I couldn't stand to lose her over anything. I guess I needed to vent a little because I'm frustrated that it seems only people who have money can have the love they want. Anyway, if anybody has any advice or comments they could share with me, it would be much appreciated.

Thanks

ok i really dont want to sound like im tryign to shatter your dreams here, im just curious, how do you know she is the one if you havent met her? i have had a few internet relationships but i could neevr meet up with them, i will never know if they were really the one, thos im pretty sure they wernt. what made you decide she is the one.
even when meeting in person i have met three people who i have thought is the one, nothing ever happened with them, tho there is a possibility with one of them. What makes you finally click to KNOW she is the one

kateygladney · **Joined:** Thu Dec 23, 2004 2:27 am **Posts:** 3

Boy do I know how you feel. My true love of 6 years lives in California and I live in Georgia. Not as far away as your love, but just as difficult. I cant afford to travel to him or vice versa because I am a single mother. I cant move there because I just finished a custody battle and it was based on the fact that I moved over state lines. (Her father didn't want to travel to see her so he tried to take custody instead - I won though) He is military and cant move. I know we'll never stop loving each other and that helps alot. We have lost touch loads of time, but we only have love, real - true love for each other. Finally talking about it and realizing that no matter if it takes 10 years.... you WILL be together is the first step you two need to take. When you truely know that in your heart it will be easier to wait for the funds to see each other. Let her know that even though it hurts to not hold her and be physically with her, Just knowing that she loves you and you will eventually be together makes you happier than you would be with anyone else. See if she feels the same way...... It should be more happiness than saddness. No one will stay with anyone that they constantly grieve for. You need to learn how to focus on what you do have instead of what you dont. If you poor like me you should be used to that advice by now. lol.
Katey

love8me · **Joined:** Tue Jun 06, 2006 2:46 am **Posts:** 1

when you're in love, you have to make a lot of sacrifices...if you really love someone, distance would not be a barrier. i met my special someone also thru itzamatch.com, well anyway, it was quite a while before we can meet but it paid off with all the sacrifices we had to go through...money was one obstacle so we worked hard and kept the communication thru the site's chat service. it was a big help since using a mobile phone would chunk up bills. we should be thankful that we have a lot of ways to communicate with our friends or love ones now than before.

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