Help wanted: Torn apart between women online

bebe_bunnie · **Joined:** Wed Apr 07, 2004 3:19 pm **Posts:** 1

hey all,

This is the story of a friend of ours, M from the UK.
He met this girl online from Latvia and they both fell madly in love :love:

. everything is goin great and they are planning on meeting this summer. But recently a bulgarian girl he knows from online has told him she likes him and flirts with him, 2 american girls did the same. He did not tell his girl in Latvia. We think he should stop communicating with the other girls and tell his Latvian girl what happened. Yet he continues to talk to all the girls (altho he now stopped talking to one of them, after we talked to him about this), and says he wont tell the latvian girl because he says she does not trust him enough and she will freak out when she hears.

Should he stop playing all girls and make a decision? Or are we just being harsh on him? How would you feel if you were his girl?

matt235 · **Joined:** Wed Apr 07, 2004 3:14 pm **Posts:** 1

hey

Thanks for the concern from my friend however not all of what he wrote there is actually true. I love my girl with all my heart and nothing will ever change that. The day we meet will be the happest day of my life. As to what was said yes i did chat to them i wanted to be friends but unfortunatly that could not happen because they kept flirting with me so i blocked them from chatting to me. I did not tell my girl because one we not really chatted for the last few days and after chatting to these once then i blocked them. the last bit is really confusing to me because he knows that i will tell my girl tomorrow the next time that i see her and this is the earliest i could have told her. She trusts me and i would never betray that trust as long as i live. So please if anyone replies take this entry as being the truth and not the previous one.

thank you all for reading and especially thank you for the concern in our relationship

angelkittenkiss · **Joined:** Sat Jun 26, 2004 4:51 pm **Posts:** 1

Listen, unless there is any way that she will ever find out, I wouldn't tell her anything, I mean obviously you have your priorities straight and have chosen the girl that you want to be with....the other girls were in your life and now they aren't...SO, if you are feeling guilty then you should carry that around, don't make her carry that distrust of you around too...I know how friggin hard it is, my boyfriend told me of a time that he ended up kissing a friend when he and I were in that weird together/ not together phase, and it's made it harder to me to trust him, so if you really love her, and it doesn't have any bearing on your life anymore, then don't tell her....

welsh_Mikey_17 · **Posted:** Wed Dec 01, 2004 5:47 pm

does flirting with other people really matter that much when your in a relationship, ok im only 17 but if i had a girlfreind i would neevr cheat on her, but flirting? thats just a bit of fun, i wouldnt care if my girlfreind was flirting with some bloke and i shouldnt think most girls would care if i was flirtign with other girls, so long as we were both open about it and knew where to join teh boundries. I actually only flirt with three people and two of them i will never meet and teh other one is a freind of mine who is pretty but i wouldnt want to go out with, i think its wrong to assume that flirting means you want to go out with the person, its just a bit of fun. so would anyone here really care if their bf/gf was flirting with someone?

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