ok so check it out heres my issue-- i recently moved to NY from florida about 10 months ago, the first day im here i meet this girl and immediatly i like her, as the year presses on we talk more and more and by this past summer were talking every day and were both kind of flirtatious, so by now were going on dates and such and we find out we have been totally into each other for like 8 months and neither of us really KNEW it--anyway my point is i need a gift for her birthday, christmas, and valentines in that order--my issues is i have a wonderful idea for a gift but being as were arent even boyfriend/girlfriend really yet i cant bring myself to give her this ring which is absolutly gorgeous and fits her perfectly because as much as i like her it seems too soon, i have never had a lot of experience with girlfriends and such and i dont wanna press to fast or whatever, werre still dating rather simply, like double dates to movies and amusement parks and that kind of thing--orginally my idea was the ring for ber birthday, but i changed my mind to chirstmas, however 3 months of dating seems a bit short for this type of gift anyway, and i need to know if i am better off waiting until valentines day for this gift or if i should go for it on christmas...its not meant to be a rpomise ring or anything just something i know she wont forget---thanks for your time i appreciate it

Dave