You're looking into their eyes and they're gazing back. You both move in for the kiss... pause. Not to worry though. With these 10 steps, every kiss from the first to the next will be picture perfect.
Step 1. Look into your partners eyes.
In anticipation of a kiss or to initiate a kiss, start by gazing into your partners eyes. Have you heard the phrase that the eyes are the windows to a persons soul? It's true. When you gaze into your partners eyes, you'll learn their true feelings, emotions, and intentions. In an intimate situation, gazing into your partner's eyes sends an intimate message, letting them know that you want to get closer.
Step 2. Smile.
A small, suggestive small does wonders. If you want to find out if you're partner is interested, sending a suggestive smile will do the trick. If you get a smile back, you're good to go. If not, or if your partner looks down or away, you probably want to back off.
Step 3. Lean in closer.
Now that you know you're about to kiss, it's time to move in. To avoid awkwardness, move slowly. Moving in too fast can make your partner uncomfortable. As you move in, make sure that you're in a comfortable position.
Step 4. Engage in light touching.
Men: A nice touch (literally!) to the perfect kiss is to lightly touch her face as you move in. A light touch such as this promotes the feeling of intimacy between the two of you.
Step 5. Tilt your head.
Now that you're moving in, it's time to make sure that you're aligned with your partner. You want to tilt your head slightly so that your lips are lined up and there's no chance of a missed kiss. Watch as you tilt to make sure that your partner has already tilted.
Step 6. Relax your lips.
Make sure that your lips are relaxed and not tightly pressed together. The perfect kiss is pleasant, with your lips softly pressed together.
Step 7. Moisten your lips.
Lightly moistened lips make for a better kiss, so keep lip balm close. You obviously won't be able to whip out the lip balm when you're "in the moment", so prepare ahead of time. This is true for both men and women. If you're caught off guard, a quick lick of the lips will work for women. Men, you want to keep your lips a bit drier, so don't lick. Both men and women need to tread carefully here. Lips that are moistened too much can make for sloppy, slobbery kisses, while lips that are too dry make for unpleasant, rough kisses. Women, you may also want to wear a brighter red lipstick. Experts agree that the red lipstick sends sexual messages to men and is a perfect addition to the perfect kiss.
Step 8. Close your eyes.
Close your eyes as you're about to make contact. Some people feel awkward if their partner's eyes are open. Besides, you'll end up with a much more passionate kissing experience if you close your eyes and let the sensations drive you.
Step 9. Part your lips.
Now that your lips are relaxed, part them slightly as you begin contact. Don't open them too much or your partner may feel that you're 'swallowing' them. Don't keep them too closed either though because your partner may get the impression that you're not as 'in' to this kiss as they are.
Step 10. The kiss.
It's finally time for impact! Gently touch your lips to theirs and you have the perfect kiss. Be sure not to pull away too quickly. You want to take your time and enjoy it! When you do finally pull away, look your partner in the eyes again. A smile, an embrace, or a whisper letting them know that you enjoyed it are a nice way to end a kiss.
Do you have any tips for a perfect kiss? Let us know!
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Niranjan Markona,india
Posted at 11:15am on Monday, August 4th, 2008
A great kiss is physical+psycological
Joz England
Posted at 9:46pm on Saturday, August 2nd, 2008
First kiss was perfect. Was in the lift/elevator...she grabbed me by suprise. Pushed me to the wall, and kissed. Then felt less of a man..so turned her over and kept kissing her while holding her cheek. :)
Melody Guyana
Posted at 11:21am on Thursday, July 31st, 2008
i hav neva kiss b4 & i intend 2 do it soon wit d guy i love i jus hope it goes perfect but i no it would b like i'm in heaven bcause i love dis guy wit all my heart
Makalai Charlotte, North Carolina
Posted at 6:46pm on Saturday, July 26th, 2008
my bf has got the best lips ever its a juicy perfect kiss everytime!!!!!!!!!!
Robert Key West
Posted at 3:08pm on Wednesday, July 23rd, 2008
I love kissing my boyfriend, his lips feel so amazing!
Louise England
Posted at 4:49pm on Monday, July 21st, 2008
my first kiss waz sooo amazing
my crush kissed me infornt of all of my friends
but it felt like no one else was around just us floating in the air
when he pulled away he stared in my eyes i thought my legs were going to give way
i smiled at him and he held my hand and whispered into my ear " i'm falling in love with you more and more every day" but then the school bell rang and he walked off to class
it waz like a dream come true
Mary Maryland
Posted at 7:33am on Sunday, July 13th, 2008
Kissing to me has far more to do with the person than the actual action. It isn't fun to kiss someone I don't feel strongly about. I need to be attracted to their mind and personality first. Once you have that? It just gets better and better.
My boyfriend and my first kiss was cute. Sweet and fun and meaningful and short, but just ... fun. That was all. As we get to know each other more and more, and spend time together ... it gets more and more meaningful. Now it's gotten to the point where a simple kiss from him can make me weak at the knees, and shows me how much he cares for me. Also, the technique improves as you go along, the more you get acquainted with your kissing partner. (Gosh ... what a cheesy phrase!)
M.anis Demak
Posted at 5:16am on Tuesday, July 8th, 2008
It was so great my first kiss with my gf...
I started smell her boobs...nice
Jaden usa
Posted at 6:03pm on Sunday, June 22nd, 2008
omg he is an awesome kisser wow i love it
Glamour Sydney
Posted at 2:22pm on Sunday, June 22nd, 2008
My first kiss.....
Well my now fiance asked if he can kiss me, the first time we tried I was so nervous - our teeth collided. The second time we where at it for almost an hour of kissing - ended up with swollen lips.
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