You're looking into their eyes and they're gazing back. You both move in for the kiss... pause. Not to worry though. With these 10 steps, every kiss from the first to the next will be picture perfect.
Step 1. Look into your partners eyes.
In anticipation of a kiss or to initiate a kiss, start by gazing into your partners eyes. Have you heard the phrase that the eyes are the windows to a persons soul? It's true. When you gaze into your partners eyes, you'll learn their true feelings, emotions, and intentions. In an intimate situation, gazing into your partner's eyes sends an intimate message, letting them know that you want to get closer.
Step 2. Smile.
A small, suggestive small does wonders. If you want to find out if you're partner is interested, sending a suggestive smile will do the trick. If you get a smile back, you're good to go. If not, or if your partner looks down or away, you probably want to back off.
Step 3. Lean in closer.
Now that you know you're about to kiss, it's time to move in. To avoid awkwardness, move slowly. Moving in too fast can make your partner uncomfortable. As you move in, make sure that you're in a comfortable position.
Step 4. Engage in light touching.
Men: A nice touch (literally!) to the perfect kiss is to lightly touch her face as you move in. A light touch such as this promotes the feeling of intimacy between the two of you.
Step 5. Tilt your head.
Now that you're moving in, it's time to make sure that you're aligned with your partner. You want to tilt your head slightly so that your lips are lined up and there's no chance of a missed kiss. Watch as you tilt to make sure that your partner has already tilted.
Step 6. Relax your lips.
Make sure that your lips are relaxed and not tightly pressed together. The perfect kiss is pleasant, with your lips softly pressed together.
Step 7. Moisten your lips.
Lightly moistened lips make for a better kiss, so keep lip balm close. You obviously won't be able to whip out the lip balm when you're "in the moment", so prepare ahead of time. This is true for both men and women. If you're caught off guard, a quick lick of the lips will work for women. Men, you want to keep your lips a bit drier, so don't lick. Both men and women need to tread carefully here. Lips that are moistened too much can make for sloppy, slobbery kisses, while lips that are too dry make for unpleasant, rough kisses. Women, you may also want to wear a brighter red lipstick. Experts agree that the red lipstick sends sexual messages to men and is a perfect addition to the perfect kiss.
Step 8. Close your eyes.
Close your eyes as you're about to make contact. Some people feel awkward if their partner's eyes are open. Besides, you'll end up with a much more passionate kissing experience if you close your eyes and let the sensations drive you.
Step 9. Part your lips.
Now that your lips are relaxed, part them slightly as you begin contact. Don't open them too much or your partner may feel that you're 'swallowing' them. Don't keep them too closed either though because your partner may get the impression that you're not as 'in' to this kiss as they are.
Step 10. The kiss.
It's finally time for impact! Gently touch your lips to theirs and you have the perfect kiss. Be sure not to pull away too quickly. You want to take your time and enjoy it! When you do finally pull away, look your partner in the eyes again. A smile, an embrace, or a whisper letting them know that you enjoyed it are a nice way to end a kiss.
Do you have any tips for a perfect kiss? Let us know!
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Anonymous Location unknown
Posted at 11:04am on Friday, November 20th, 2009
My first kiss was really awkward...It was with my friend and we had just started going out when he leant in for a kiss I got so scared that I kept my lips tightly shut and we were kind of too pressed together wasn't good! Don't have too much high expectations for that first kiss because you think you're prepared but when It comes down to it you act differently to how you think you will act
Anonymous Location unknown
Posted at 10:23pm on Thursday, November 12th, 2009
ahah my first kiss failed i got rly nervous and missed XD but then i kissed her again and that was to me perfect but then again ill never forget the fact that i missed
Brindha PA
Posted at 4:09am on Tuesday, November 10th, 2009
my first kiss was perfect. i was dating him for a abt a yr and a half and never kissed him until the day of my moms funeral. i was full with emotions i felt lonely and it was so perfect because i felt like my mom told me that he was the one.... i followed my instincts and guess what 6 yrs later we are still together. there is not a real technique in kissing someone as long as your love shows and you let your emotions come out in your kiss
Rebecca Pa
Posted at 2:12am on Monday, November 9th, 2009
Ok this is good but if sombody whispered "i enjoyed that kiss" or somthing at the end of one... id probably feel kinda akward, or laugh,...i hate when guys are to insistent about kissing, it anoys me to no end, my boyfriend always would want to kiss, and somtimes i just wanted a short and simple soft kiss, but he never wanted just that, when we kissed he wanted a full on makeout sesion,EVERYTIME!
Rebecca Pa
Posted at 2:08am on Monday, November 9th, 2009
Ok this is good but if sombody whispered "i enjoyed that kiss" or somthing at the end of one... id probably feel kinda akward, or laugh,...
Anonymous Location unknown
Posted at 1:22pm on Thursday, November 5th, 2009
lol my first kiss was a mess me and my boyfreind ran away and we some how ended up at the skip, lol and we ended up kissing x] but then we both got chased back home
Kiran India
Posted at 3:52pm on Saturday, October 31st, 2009
I can't forget my first kiss wit my lover. She didn't expect my kissing with her at tat time, so we wer not enjoyed well. My fast approach is the reason for tat failure, but she actually need kiss from me. Your guidance will very useful to us for our soft romance.
crimson rain india
Posted at 2:49am on Saturday, October 24th, 2009
well, my first kiss was on the endge of a mountian, where i was walkin wid this guy, i wasn't dating and he was showin me the city lights frm the edge, the air was cool everything was perfect except the fact tht i dnt love him, he just kinda pushed me over the rock and he did a french, i kicked his balls and said sorry like a lady and walked off, bt the thing is, dnt kissto kiss, kiss to love :) so i dnt consider this as my first kiss, my frst true love's kiss was in this theatre hall, he was leaving and he stood up coz he had to catch a flight, i held his hand, and he said he'd never have waited for a gal for 3 months and we hugged and while we were partin, our lips just met and it was beautiful, the techniques dsn't matter as long as u make him feel how much u luv him :) he's kissed alota gals and he told me this was the most different one, advice, huggin before kissin helps cut the awkwardness of comin closer...
Me greece
Posted at 7:04pm on Friday, October 23rd, 2009
well my first kiss was extreamly awsome...i was so excited that i didn't want to stop xD...i was 12 y.o. back then and now i recall of that memory and it brings a smile on my face :P
tj canada
Posted at 5:32pm on Friday, October 23rd, 2009
omg my first kiss was amazing! it was late at night in an empty parking lot we were walking nd my gf just stoped so i turned around we got close nd well it just happened it was amazing it felt so gud nd i new tht she wanted it i will always remember tht moment
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