You're looking into their eyes and they're gazing back. You both move in for the kiss... pause. Not to worry though. With these 10 steps, every kiss from the first to the next will be picture perfect.
Step 1. Look into your partners eyes.
In anticipation of a kiss or to initiate a kiss, start by gazing into your partners eyes. Have you heard the phrase that the eyes are the windows to a persons soul? It's true. When you gaze into your partners eyes, you'll learn their true feelings, emotions, and intentions. In an intimate situation, gazing into your partner's eyes sends an intimate message, letting them know that you want to get closer.
Step 2. Smile.
A small, suggestive small does wonders. If you want to find out if you're partner is interested, sending a suggestive smile will do the trick. If you get a smile back, you're good to go. If not, or if your partner looks down or away, you probably want to back off.
Step 3. Lean in closer.
Now that you know you're about to kiss, it's time to move in. To avoid awkwardness, move slowly. Moving in too fast can make your partner uncomfortable. As you move in, make sure that you're in a comfortable position.
Step 4. Engage in light touching.
Men: A nice touch (literally!) to the perfect kiss is to lightly touch her face as you move in. A light touch such as this promotes the feeling of intimacy between the two of you.
Step 5. Tilt your head.
Now that you're moving in, it's time to make sure that you're aligned with your partner. You want to tilt your head slightly so that your lips are lined up and there's no chance of a missed kiss. Watch as you tilt to make sure that your partner has already tilted.
Step 6. Relax your lips.
Make sure that your lips are relaxed and not tightly pressed together. The perfect kiss is pleasant, with your lips softly pressed together.
Step 7. Moisten your lips.
Lightly moistened lips make for a better kiss, so keep lip balm close. You obviously won't be able to whip out the lip balm when you're "in the moment", so prepare ahead of time. This is true for both men and women. If you're caught off guard, a quick lick of the lips will work for women. Men, you want to keep your lips a bit drier, so don't lick. Both men and women need to tread carefully here. Lips that are moistened too much can make for sloppy, slobbery kisses, while lips that are too dry make for unpleasant, rough kisses. Women, you may also want to wear a brighter red lipstick. Experts agree that the red lipstick sends sexual messages to men and is a perfect addition to the perfect kiss.
Step 8. Close your eyes.
Close your eyes as you're about to make contact. Some people feel awkward if their partner's eyes are open. Besides, you'll end up with a much more passionate kissing experience if you close your eyes and let the sensations drive you.
Step 9. Part your lips.
Now that your lips are relaxed, part them slightly as you begin contact. Don't open them too much or your partner may feel that you're 'swallowing' them. Don't keep them too closed either though because your partner may get the impression that you're not as 'in' to this kiss as they are.
Step 10. The kiss.
It's finally time for impact! Gently touch your lips to theirs and you have the perfect kiss. Be sure not to pull away too quickly. You want to take your time and enjoy it! When you do finally pull away, look your partner in the eyes again. A smile, an embrace, or a whisper letting them know that you enjoyed it are a nice way to end a kiss.
Do you have any tips for a perfect kiss? Let us know!
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marlea Atlanta
Posted at 5:36pm on Friday, March 12th, 2010
My first kiss i was four and then i was 6 at summer camp and me and the camp counselor's son kissed like ever day behind this tree it was really fun, but my first kiss was the best i like trying to get my friend (guy)that i really like to kiss me at the upcoming dance but for now i wait
dylan conneticut
Posted at 9:12pm on Thursday, March 11th, 2010
i like kissing
patientwaiter tennessee
Posted at 1:45pm on Thursday, March 11th, 2010
u seem so sure of yourself dreamboi... but how can u be that sure? ;)
Dreamboi Concord NC
Posted at 8:02pm on Wednesday, March 10th, 2010
No joke buh im da perfect kisser ;)
maria 2li mp
Posted at 4:03am on Tuesday, March 9th, 2010
i personally hate a kiss coz its time consuming especially when you are being kissed by a bad kisser 4 those of u who have not tried no rush im 18
ashley california
Posted at 6:28pm on Monday, March 8th, 2010
me n my boyfriend have been goin out since january 13th 2010 i asked him out and weve been goin out since. but i think he wants 2 break up cuz we dont hug that much anymore we dont talk alot but he sits with me at lunch and weve kissed b 4 on the lips but we havent made out yet but i want 2 soooooo bad but idk if he wants 2 he probably does but idk when the time is rite 4 us 2 make out i want 2 but idk i dont think hes ready so ya
Jessica AZ
Posted at 9:49pm on Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010
hahaha, I met this guy online who's an older brother of a friend of mine. We started talking for about 2-3 weeks when I finally agreed to meet him. Our first date he met my family...and after a week of courtship he asked me to be his gf. (yes, it seems pretty fast but it was an instant connection with him). So after a week, we finally held hands together, then a week after that we finally kissed (closed lip) and I got this amazing tingling sensation when we finally touch lip to lip.... We didnt make out till a month and a half into our relationship. Now we've been together for a lil over a year and it has pretty much slowed down...We do not make out anymore (its been about 10 months since we last did that) but we still love each other tremendously...We seem more like an old married couple but both live in our parents home, hahaha. Fortunately, we never progressed to making love.. We both want to save ourselves for our future spouses XD
oh and we're our first everything! First person to hold hands with, kiss, etc XD
We might have seemed rushed at first, but we just couldnt help it...we just have this instant connection, like we finally found who we were searching for...our other half.....our soul mate...
alyssa tennessee
Posted at 2:09pm on Monday, March 1st, 2010
karli, being 15 myself, im kinda feeling a conection here :) my bf is also 16 1/2. But we have been goin out for over 7months. it will be 8 on the 10th of this month! Before I give you my personal oppinion, I want you to know that I dont judge anyone and honestly dont care what anyone does, because its their life! :) So with that all said... I think you two are fine right now. But im wandering how far its gotten. Here's the thing, if you start out really fast, the relationship may end really soon. For instance: say a girl and guy met, started to like each other and he asked her out like a week later. And then, they had their first kiss the next week.. were making out after just a month.. where do u think it will lead? I mean, honestly, they could be sleeping together by like the third or fourth month of dating! and after a while of that, the guy could jus up and dump you!.. leavin you w either a broken heart, or maybe a baby on the way.. :-/ Now, for ppl who've done this, I am not judging u at all! If you and your partner are comfortable, then thats great! :) But my personal oppinion, or better yet, for me.. that is WAY to soon!!! I am sooo not ready for that step and probly wont be until highschool is over! (but again, thats jus me) So, I'd encourage you to talk to your bf and jus see wut he thinks :) If youre afraid of moving too fast, then he needs to know. Love is built from both sides. So both you and your mate should have a mutual agreement on how far things are taken. :) I hope that has helped some..
karli ohio
Posted at 10:13am on Sunday, February 28th, 2010
so my boyfriend asked me out 1 12 10 and the day he asked me to be his girlfriend, he kissed me. is that too sudden? and we made out after a month being together. are we taking it a little too fast. im 15 and hes 16 1/2. please help me.
Alyssa Tennessee
Posted at 2:59pm on Thursday, February 25th, 2010
Ive never been kissed... Its a funny thought, in all honesty, because most of my friends already have. But my boyfriend and I are taking it easy.. We are so much in love, but are working on building that before we get physical :) I love how he has made this relationship fun and relaxing.. guys, dont ever push your girl to do somethin she's totally not ready for! and girls, if he takes it slow, its ok! :) enjoy your partner for who they are before enjoying what they have.. it makes for a much easier relationship! -no awkwardness- lol
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