You are here: Home > Flirting > Woman's Guide to Flirting
A Woman's Guide to Flirting
So you want to flirt... or you want to learn how a man flirts. This guide for women cues you in on the basics of flirting with men and helps you learn how to know if he's flirting with you.
How to Tell if He's Flirting With You
When men flirt, they generally give off cues that exude their masculinity. If your notice that a guy is exhibiting any of these behaviors or gestures, then it's likely that he's flirting with you! Get your flirtatious grove on and flirt back.
These include:
Arches his back.
Sways his pelvis.
Laughs loudly.
Tugs his tie.
Clasps back of his neck.
Squares his shoulders.
Puffs his chest.
Stiffens his stance.
Teases you in a friendly manner.
Winks as you from a distance.
Smiles suggestively.
Engages in direct eye contact.
Casually touches you.
What to Watch Out For
Now that you know what to look for when flirting, here are few things that you want to avoid. If you notice a man exhibiting any of these behaviors, escape now.
He walks over with over-confidence.
He approaches in a controlling manner and dominates the conversation.
He invades your personal space right away.
How to Approach Him
If all has gone well and you've read his cues properly, he'll either approach you, or you can approach him. Tread carefully either way. If he's approaching, you don't want to do anything to undermine his confidence. Remember, it takes a lot for a man to just walk up to a woman and talk to her. If you're approaching him, remember that you're sending out signals during the approach that could make or break you before you even have a chance to talk!
Lock eyes for a few seconds, then drop your gaze. Eye contact is a sign of openness. Most men will pick up on this flirtatious and approach you.
If the guy is approaching you, be classy and charming. He's probably nervous and a bit worried about rejection. Take these into consideration and play nice.
While he's approaching, smile suggestively. Experts agree that smiling is one of the most important things you can do to make yourself more attractive and approachable.
Once You're There.
Once he's arrived (or you have), it's time to get the conversation started.
Speak slowly and with direct statements rather than abstract ones. Remember that men are less 'feely' than women.
Laugh at his jokes, but don't overdo it.
Keep your eyes on him, but glance away. Men tend to not engage in direct eye contact as much as women.
Ask him about his job as Men tend to define themselves by their careers.
Find common ground. The most important aspect of your conversation is to find out what you have in common, be it hobbies, friends, jobs, or whatnot.
Don't talk about yourself too much. Answer his questions, but be sure to ask questions about him as well.
Other Things To Look For.
The way a man dresses gives you clues to his personality. Pay attention to the following:
To link to this page, copy the following code to your site:
Post a Comment
Post a comment about this article or share your own ideas.
Comments to date: 74. This is page 1 of 8.
ARTEMIJGromov25 Location unknown
Posted at 11:48pm on Friday, January 13th, 2012
хороший сантехник, недорого
Hailey New Jersey
Posted at 8:41pm on Tuesday, December 20th, 2011
Southside, learn how to spell and use proper grammar. You are being a disgrace as a representation of New Jersey... and we all know how everybody already thinks we're a bunch of fist pumping, orange guidos.
jo a ire
Posted at 11:25am on Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010
brill sight gr8 info :)
lonely ++ doesn't matter
Posted at 12:25pm on Saturday, June 26th, 2010
hey lonely..im lonely too..same is the case with me...wanna have a chat some time?? not necessarily flirtatious :P
andy sydney
Posted at 6:31pm on Thursday, June 24th, 2010
the neck clasp is wrong. thats more of a sign of being tired not neccessarily bored. This occurs especially in tall guys or guys who do alot of sport.
-guys who check their phone alot eg the time are often nevous though often not due to you but feel out of place.
shirley shirleyzen@rediff
Posted at 4:01am on Wednesday, June 23rd, 2010
its really a useful piece of information especially for youngsters.one can find more articles on http://www.younghopes.com/love-relationships-203.html
Jen Florida
Posted at 6:35pm on Saturday, June 19th, 2010
What happeneds if the guy u like barley know u exsist
links of london online http://www.linksoflondons.uk.com/
Posted at 6:12pm on Friday, March 12th, 2010
one day i went shopping outside,and in an ed hardy store,I found some kinds of ed hardy i love most they are Your website is really good Thank you for the information
anonymous us
Posted at 4:12pm on Thursday, February 25th, 2010
this boy at school always flrit with me and touch me to much and its getting anoying lol
lonley really lonnley
Posted at 4:53pm on Wednesday, February 24th, 2010
i wish i had a boyfreind nobody likes me and i dont no why im no ugly or anything it jusy not working for me..
Flirting
