I have heard about the "G spot", but I don't know where it is. How do I stimulate it? I would very much appreciate some guidance on this issue.
Thank you!
Hello!
Not everyone even believes that the "g-spot" exists. I do however, based on my experience, and most women agree with me on this.
The "g-spot", (or "Gaffenburg Spot"), is an anatomical structure located inside the vagina, usually about an inch to 2 inches inside. If the woman is lying on her back, it is located on the top wall of the vagina. You can find it by inserting one or two fingers into the vagina with you palm facing up, and curling your fingers upward to point back at you. (Be sure to have your nails trimmed!)
What you'll find is a "fleshy" area roughly about the size of a quarter that has very specialized nerves, much like the clitoris. Many women report that this spot generates huge orgasms - even "female ejaculations" - a very good thing.
One way to really work a woman is you insert your finger into her vagina and stroke this area, or move your finger in and out while applying pressure to this area, and lick her clitoris at the same time.
Keep in mind that every woman is different. Some are so sensitive that they can't take this much stimulation, and others absolutely need it. Ask your girl what she prefers, and experiment!
Good luck, much love...
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