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Dr. Dennis Neder, Relationship Author & Columnist

Author of Being a Man in a Woman's World, Dr. Dennis Neder is dedicated to advancing the arts and sciences of relationships. His mantra: start having the relationships you deserve! New articles are posted every Wednesday!

Do you have a love, dating, relationship, sex or man/woman question? Dr. Dennis Neder answers all email, so send him an email for answers. For more information about his books, "Being a Man in a Woman's World" (volumes I & II), and other products, please visit BeingAMan.com.


2008-04-30: Getting My Man to Commit
2008-04-23: Learning to Climax During Intercourse
2008-04-16: Falling for a (Somewhat) Older Man
2008-04-09: Dealing with Rejection
2008-04-02: My Boyfriend Doesn't Like My Father
2008-03-26: His Libido
2008-03-19: She's No Longer Interested?
2008-03-12: Dating Hell
2008-03-05: A Special Dating Hell
2008-02-27: Oral Sex-Less
2008-02-20: A Dearth of Dates
2008-02-13: Are Nice Guys a Dying Breed?
2008-02-06: My Parents Don't Like My Partner
2008-01-30: Confusing Girl-Games
2008-01-23: The Cheating Girlfriend
2008-01-16: Should I Give Up Relationships To Have a Career?
2008-01-09: Who Can Have a Support Network?
2008-01-02: Learning to Communicate
2007-12-26: The 'Loaded Weapon'
2007-12-12: How to Not Stiffen Up on the Approach
2007-12-05: How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me?
2007-11-28: How to Buy a Date from a Co-Worker
2007-11-21: Hot Women Get Dumped for Someone Else
2007-11-14: Those Hot Women!
2007-11-07: Sexually Frustrated
2007-10-31: Turning Down a 'Friend'
2007-10-24: Asking a Guy Out
2007-10-17: Should I Contact Her Again?
2007-10-10: Approaching the Girl
2007-10-03: Dating in Different Cultures
2007-09-26: Guy's Girl Wants to Get Back With Her Ex
2007-09-19: Approach Without Nervousness
2007-09-05: How to Get Back Into Dating
2007-08-22: Being Too Shy
2007-08-22: How to Get One Night Stands
2007-08-15: Sabotaging Your Relationship
2007-08-01: Lost Without a Trace
2007-07-25: Men are Dumb Too
2007-07-18: Women are Dumb
2007-07-12: The Rules of Fidelity
2007-07-04: Why So Many Relationships?
2007-06-27: Keeping My Boyfriend Sexually Attracted
2007-06-13: I'm A Snoop
2007-05-25: Can This Marriage Be Saved?
2007-05-09: Learning from the Past
2007-05-02: Meeting Women in a Book or Music Shop
2007-04-25: Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out
2007-04-18: Does My Boyfriend Appreciate Me
2007-04-11: Girls: Learn How To Say 'Yes'
2007-04-04: Lying is Bad - Um-Kay?
2007-03-28: The Cowardice of "Taking Breaks"
2007-03-21: How to NOT Impress Women With Gifts
2007-03-14: 10-Steps To Constructive Arguing
2007-03-07: Air-Sick Bag, Please!
2007-02-28: Should I Get Married?
2007-02-21: After the Fight
2007-02-14: Turn Her into a "Social Butterfly"
2007-01-24: Game-Playing Girlfriend
2007-01-17: Why "Working it From the Inside" Doesn't Work
2007-01-10: You Better Know How to Handle "The Test"!
2006-12-28: Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One of Them
2006-12-20: Trouble in Break-Up City
2006-12-13: The Reality of "Being Friends"
2006-12-06: My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!
2006-11-15: How To Attract Women
2006-11-08: What's Her Problem?
2006-11-01: Is "Needing Someone" Unhealthy?
2006-10-25: The Problem with Dating Farm Animals
2006-10-18: The Problem: Inertia
2006-10-11: The Girl at Work
2006-10-04: Which is Best - Same or Different?
2006-09-28: Husband Kicked Out of the House
2006-09-20: The Older Woman
2006-09-13: Dealing with Differences in Sex Drives
2006-09-06: How Long Does Sex Take?
2006-08-30: Do You Think She Likes Me?
2006-08-25: Dealing With the Fear of Rejection
2006-08-16: 10 Ways Women Can Be Lousy In Bed
2006-08-09: Marriage and Religion
2006-08-02: She's Commitment Phobic
2006-07-26: Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway?
2006-07-19: Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!
2006-07-12: Learn to Kiss, Dammit!
2006-07-05: The Guy That Wants to Get Married
2006-06-28: Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend
2006-06-21: How Women Can Approach Men
2006-06-14: Getting Past Your Past
2006-06-07: Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities
2006-05-31: Find What Makes You Happy
2006-05-24: I Don't Want to Look Like an Idiot!
2006-05-17: Moving On and Knowing That You've Moved On
2006-05-16: Going Through Hell
2006-05-10: Handling Call-Backs, Messages and Setting Dates
2006-05-03: Should I Call to Confirm a Date?
2006-04-26: It's the Choices You Make Now
2006-04-19: Messing Up The Perfect Thing
2006-04-05: A Sensitive/Sensitivity Problem
2006-03-29: Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship
2006-03-15: The Magic of the Approach
2006-03-08: The Three Keys to the Cold Approach
2006-03-01: Have I Been Replaced?
2006-02-23: I Feel Like I've Been Waiting Forever!
2006-02-15: How Do I Make It Through?
2006-02-10: Do Men Respect Women?
2006-02-01: Building Experience From Inexperience
2006-01-25: Why Can't I Meet Someone That's Available?
2006-01-18: Is it Time to Move in Together?
2006-01-11: Do YOU Have Different Rules For Women?
2006-01-05: Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'?
2005-12-28: Break-Up Fake-Out, or Move Out Without the Lout?
2005-12-21: How Big a Gift is Appropriate?
2005-12-14: Is She Just A Habit?
2005-12-07: Strong Women, Submissive Women
2005-11-30: How to Deal with the Silent Treatment
2005-11-23: My Flaky Girl Problem
2005-11-16: Knowledge *IS* Power - When You Have It!
2005-11-09: You Have To Learn The Game!
2005-10-19: What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate!
2005-10-12: In a Sea of Messages, This One's Mixed
2005-10-05: Marriage Isn't a Relationship, It's a Format
2005-09-28: How Do I Tell Him To Tell Me?
2005-09-21: The Better Part of Discretion
2005-09-14: Men Won't Approach Me
2005-09-07: Would Setting Him Up Be Wrong?
2005-08-24: Friendships and False Hopes
2005-08-17: The Farmer's Milk
2005-08-10: The Harsh Reality
2005-08-03: Ex-Wife In The Way
2005-07-27: Habitual Self-Sabotage
2005-07-20: How To Change A Belief System
2005-07-13: Finding Out What Your "Type" Is
2005-07-07: Mistrust and "Trustability"
2005-06-29: The Difference Between "Trust" and "Respect"
2005-06-22: Have I Wasted My Life?
2005-06-15: Building the Relationship - Part II
2005-06-08: Building the Relationship
2005-06-01: The Elusive Relationship
2005-05-25: Flirty Girls and Mixed Messages
2005-05-18: Cultivating Good Communication Skills
2005-05-04: My Girlfriend and Her Fast (Food) Boss
2005-04-27: Be Careful About Where You Get Your Advice
2005-04-20: At The End of My Sexual Rope!
2005-04-13: How Young is Too Young?
2005-04-06: I Can't Believe People "Like You"!
2005-03-30: My Girlfriend is a Spy!
2005-03-23: Mr. Nice Guy
2005-03-16: Help! My Boyfriend is the Girlfriend!
2005-03-09: Should I Marry "The One"?
2005-03-02: A Sense of Urgency
2005-02-23: My Girl Flirts
2005-02-17: Hold Your Dates In Person
2005-02-09: We're Not Communicating
2005-02-02: When to Pop The (Other) Question
2005-01-26: Am I Missing My G-Spot?
2005-01-19: Should I Let My Girlfriend Go and Get Married?
2005-01-12: My Girlfriend is Married
2005-01-05: All My Men's Is Friends
2004-12-29: Too Shy to Try
2004-12-22: Divorce, the Kids, Family and Me
2004-12-15: A Case Where Truth Doesn't Hurt
2004-12-08: How Do I Know She Loves Me?
2004-12-01: How Do I "Divorce The Ex"?
2004-11-24: She's Going to Show You What Real 'Hurt' Is
2004-11-10: The "Owned Woman"
2004-11-03: The "Inter-Dependent" Relationship
2004-10-27: Fear, As a Motivator
2004-10-20: Could These Balls Be Yours, By Chance?
2004-10-13: 'Right-Sizing' Your Relationship
2004-09-29: How to Keep it "Just Sex"
2004-09-22: The Cheating Girlfriend
2004-09-15: The "Selfish Woman" Syndrome
2004-09-08: A Total Lack of Respect
2004-08-25: The Mathematics of Moving In Together
2004-08-18: Your Cheatin' Heart
2004-08-11: Just What Is a "Committed Relationship" Anyway?
2004-08-04: Fighting Keeps Ending My Relationships!
2004-07-28: Does My Girlfriend Love Me?
2004-07-21: Is He Jerking Me By Jerking Off?
2004-07-14: Dating Interracially
2004-07-07: It's Really About Your Goals
2004-06-30: Who is REALLY the Problem Here?
2004-05-26: Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?
2004-05-19: Dating While Still Being In a Relationship
2004-05-12: I Can't Get Him To Leave
2004-04-28: Get Over It Already!
2004-04-21: Dating With A.D.D.
2004-04-14: Living Together Before Marriage
2004-03-31: Being a Coward and Taking It Slow
2004-03-24: I Don't Trust Myself
2004-03-17: What Do Men Really Want?
2004-03-10: Financial Accounting in Relationships
2004-03-03: The Secret To Getting Men to Commit
2004-02-11: Being Used - and Abused
2004-02-04: A Case of Mistaken Virginity
2004-01-28: Being Shy Is Only An Excuse!
2004-01-21: Clarification on Breaking Up
2004-01-14: The Perils of Internet Dating
2004-01-07: Masturbation
2003-12-31: Learning to Be a Man During a Breakup
2003-12-24: Reviving the Stale Relationship
2003-12-17: Notes on Working Bars and Clubs
2003-12-10: Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part II
2003-12-03: Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part I
2003-11-27: "The Test" and "The Challenge"
2003-11-19: Compliments and "Metacompliments"
2003-11-12: Ready to Jump In and Ruin Our Future!
2003-10-29: The Sexless, Passionless Lifestyle
2003-10-22: Time to Kick Your "Inner Child's" Little Ass!
2003-10-15: The "Insider Friend"
2003-10-08: The "Friend" That Broke Up A Relationship
2003-09-17: That Elusive G-Spot!
2003-09-10: Why Doesn't He Want What I Want?
2003-08-27: Pending Marriage Causes Concern
2003-08-06: The Big "O"
2003-07-30: Is It Better to Give or Receive?
2003-07-23: Testing by Proxy
2003-07-16: When the Rules Change
2003-07-09: Learning to Trust
2003-07-02: My "Friend" Wants More!
2003-06-25: Manipulation and Game Playing
2003-06-11: Love Isn't An Excuse To Be Abused
2003-06-04: Help With Stuttering
2003-05-28: With Every Ending, A New Beginning
2003-05-21: How To Not Be "Clingy"
2003-05-14: My Boyfriend Has Changed His Mind
2003-05-08: How Do I Tell If A Woman Is "Sexually Open"?
2003-04-30: How to Handle The Check, Et. Al.
2003-04-23: Stop The Madness!
2003-04-16: It's Marriage or Else!
2003-04-02: Where To Look To Find Your Balls
2003-03-26: Me, My Ex, My Friend's Ex and The Kids
2003-03-19: Dealing With The Self-Centered Guy
2003-03-12: How Can Women Be Great In Bed?
2003-03-05: The Meaning of Jewelry Changes
2003-02-26: The Problems of Living Together
2003-02-19: The First Contact in an Email Relationship
2003-02-12: Is Sex All There Is?
2003-02-05: Dealing With the "Game Buster"
2003-01-29: Raising Boys Into Men
2003-01-22: No "If's", "And's" – Just One Big "Butt"
2003-01-15: Some Women Get Mad When You Say "No"!
2003-01-08: The "Divide and Concur" Approach
2003-01-03: Holiday Pressure for Commitment
2002-12-27: How Slow is Too Slow?
2002-12-11: How Do I Get Him To Marry Me?
2002-12-04: How to Improve a Sex Life
2002-11-27: Controlling Jealousy
2002-11-20: My Unfaithful Girlfriend
2002-11-13: At a Loss for Being Selfish
2002-11-06: Why Are Men Obsessed With Porn?
2002-10-30: More on Dating Two (or more) Women at a Time
2002-10-23: Love Hurts
2002-10-16: Finding the 'G' Spot
2002-10-09: Exploring the Approach
2002-10-02: How to Help Him be Monogamous
2002-09-25: Get Over Being Shy
2002-09-18: Getting A Waitress's Phone Number
2002-09-11: In Love At A Distance
2002-09-04: Healthy and Happy - or Just Hopeless?
2002-08-21: Focus on Yourself
2002-08-14: Rebuilding Trust
2002-08-07: Musings About More Mixed Messages
2002-08-02: Failing to Plan? - You're Planning to Fail!
2002-07-31: How Can I Get Him Off the Fence?
2002-07-24: Stop Being Used
2002-07-10: Handling a Difficult Close
2002-07-03: How To Handle Success
2002-06-26: How Do I Get Her Out of His Life
2002-06-19: The Problem With Single Mothers
2002-06-12: Massage Revisited: The "Facial Massage"
2002-06-05: Making Eye Contact
2002-05-29: It's All in the Approach
2002-05-22: "Faked Confidence" Revisited Again
2002-05-15: "Faked Confidence" Revisited
2002-05-08: The Unfaithful Boyfriend
2002-04-24: It Takes Two
2002-04-17: How to Get A Man To Answer Relationship Questions
2002-04-10: From "Sensitive" to "Masculine" in 4 Easy Steps
2002-04-03: Am I Her Pet?
2002-03-27: How To Start When You Have No Map
2002-03-20: Work Your Assets, Not Your Liabilities
2002-03-13: When Not To Get Married
2002-03-06: Getting Over Social Phobia
2002-02-27: When To Introduce Her To Your Friends
2002-02-20: Can You Love If You Don't "Like"?
2002-02-13: He's Hot, He's Cold, and He's Hot Again!
2002-02-06: Guided Visualization as a Key to Success
2002-01-30: It's Time to Get Moving With Women
2002-01-23: Do I Have a Chance With Him?
2001-12-12: She Won't Stop Kissing Her Friends
2001-12-05: Help Me Please Mine!
2001-11-28: Everybody Has A Past
2001-11-21: You Can't "Own" Someone Else!
2001-11-14: Have Confidence: Fake it Until You Make It!
2001-11-07: She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend!
2001-10-31: 10 Ways to Know When Your Relationship Is "Right"
2001-10-24: Why Do Men Fear Commitment?
2001-10-17: Pass On Those Leads
2001-10-10: Learning To Be A Sexual Person
2001-10-03: Learning To Be A Man
2001-09-21: Relationship Management During A Crisis
2001-09-01: Breaking Up
2001-09-01: First Date Checklist
2001-09-01: Giving A Great Massage
2001-09-01: Meeting That Someone Special
2001-09-01: The Test
2001-09-01: The Art of Selling

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