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Dr. Dennis Neder, Relationship Author & Columnist
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Being a Man in a Woman's World , Dr. Dennis Neder is dedicated to advancing the arts and sciences of relationships. His mantra: start having the relationships
you deserve!
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ARTICLES:
2008-04-30 :
Getting My Man to Commit
2008-04-23 :
Learning to Climax During Intercourse
2008-04-16 :
Falling for a (Somewhat) Older Man
2008-04-09 :
Dealing with Rejection
2008-04-02 :
My Boyfriend Doesn't Like My Father
2008-03-26 :
His Libido
2008-03-19 :
She's No Longer Interested?
2008-03-12 :
Dating Hell
2008-03-05 :
A Special Dating Hell
2008-02-27 :
Oral Sex-Less
2008-02-20 :
A Dearth of Dates
2008-02-13 :
Are Nice Guys a Dying Breed?
2008-02-06 :
My Parents Don't Like My Partner
2008-01-30 :
Confusing Girl-Games
2008-01-23 :
The Cheating Girlfriend
2008-01-16 :
Should I Give Up Relationships To Have a Career?
2008-01-09 :
Who Can Have a Support Network?
2008-01-02 :
Learning to Communicate
2007-12-26 :
The 'Loaded Weapon'
2007-12-12 :
How to Not Stiffen Up on the Approach
2007-12-05 :
How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me?
2007-11-28 :
How to Buy a Date from a Co-Worker
2007-11-21 :
Hot Women Get Dumped for Someone Else
2007-11-14 :
Those Hot Women!
2007-11-07 :
Sexually Frustrated
2007-10-31 :
Turning Down a 'Friend'
2007-10-24 :
Asking a Guy Out
2007-10-17 :
Should I Contact Her Again?
2007-10-10 :
Approaching the Girl
2007-10-03 :
Dating in Different Cultures
2007-09-26 :
Guy's Girl Wants to Get Back With Her Ex
2007-09-19 :
Approach Without Nervousness
2007-09-05 :
How to Get Back Into Dating
2007-08-22 :
Being Too Shy
2007-08-22 :
How to Get One Night Stands
2007-08-15 :
Sabotaging Your Relationship
2007-08-01 :
Lost Without a Trace
2007-07-25 :
Men are Dumb Too
2007-07-18 :
Women are Dumb
2007-07-12 :
The Rules of Fidelity
2007-07-04 :
Why So Many Relationships?
2007-06-27 :
Keeping My Boyfriend Sexually Attracted
2007-06-13 :
I'm A Snoop
2007-05-25 :
Can This Marriage Be Saved?
2007-05-09 :
Learning from the Past
2007-05-02 :
Meeting Women in a Book or Music Shop
2007-04-25 :
Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out
2007-04-18 :
Does My Boyfriend Appreciate Me
2007-04-11 :
Girls: Learn How To Say 'Yes'
2007-04-04 :
Lying is Bad - Um-Kay?
2007-03-28 :
The Cowardice of "Taking Breaks"
2007-03-21 :
How to NOT Impress Women With Gifts
2007-03-14 :
10-Steps To Constructive Arguing
2007-03-07 :
Air-Sick Bag, Please!
2007-02-28 :
Should I Get Married?
2007-02-21 :
After the Fight
2007-02-14 :
Turn Her into a "Social Butterfly"
2007-01-24 :
Game-Playing Girlfriend
2007-01-17 :
Why "Working it From the Inside" Doesn't Work
2007-01-10 :
You Better Know How to Handle "The Test"!
2006-12-28 :
Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One of Them
2006-12-20 :
Trouble in Break-Up City
2006-12-13 :
The Reality of "Being Friends"
2006-12-06 :
My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!
2006-11-15 :
How To Attract Women
2006-11-08 :
What's Her Problem?
2006-11-01 :
Is "Needing Someone" Unhealthy?
2006-10-25 :
The Problem with Dating Farm Animals
2006-10-18 :
The Problem: Inertia
2006-10-11 :
The Girl at Work
2006-10-04 :
Which is Best - Same or Different?
2006-09-28 :
Husband Kicked Out of the House
2006-09-20 :
The Older Woman
2006-09-13 :
Dealing with Differences in Sex Drives
2006-09-06 :
How Long Does Sex Take?
2006-08-30 :
Do You Think She Likes Me?
2006-08-25 :
Dealing With the Fear of Rejection
2006-08-16 :
10 Ways Women Can Be Lousy In Bed
2006-08-09 :
Marriage and Religion
2006-08-02 :
She's Commitment Phobic
2006-07-26 :
Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway?
2006-07-19 :
Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!
2006-07-12 :
Learn to Kiss, Dammit!
2006-07-05 :
The Guy That Wants to Get Married
2006-06-28 :
Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend
2006-06-21 :
How Women Can Approach Men
2006-06-14 :
Getting Past Your Past
2006-06-07 :
Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities
2006-05-31 :
Find What Makes You Happy
2006-05-24 :
I Don't Want to Look Like an Idiot!
2006-05-17 :
Moving On and Knowing That You've Moved On
2006-05-16 :
Going Through Hell
2006-05-10 :
Handling Call-Backs, Messages and Setting Dates
2006-05-03 :
Should I Call to Confirm a Date?
2006-04-26 :
It's the Choices You Make Now
2006-04-19 :
Messing Up The Perfect Thing
2006-04-05 :
A Sensitive/Sensitivity Problem
2006-03-29 :
Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship
2006-03-15 :
The Magic of the Approach
2006-03-08 :
The Three Keys to the Cold Approach
2006-03-01 :
Have I Been Replaced?
2006-02-23 :
I Feel Like I've Been Waiting Forever!
2006-02-15 :
How Do I Make It Through?
2006-02-10 :
Do Men Respect Women?
2006-02-01 :
Building Experience From Inexperience
2006-01-25 :
Why Can't I Meet Someone That's Available?
2006-01-18 :
Is it Time to Move in Together?
2006-01-11 :
Do YOU Have Different Rules For Women?
2006-01-05 :
Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'?
2005-12-28 :
Break-Up Fake-Out, or Move Out Without the Lout?
2005-12-21 :
How Big a Gift is Appropriate?
2005-12-14 :
Is She Just A Habit?
2005-12-07 :
Strong Women, Submissive Women
2005-11-30 :
How to Deal with the Silent Treatment
2005-11-23 :
My Flaky Girl Problem
2005-11-16 :
Knowledge *IS* Power - When You Have It!
2005-11-09 :
You Have To Learn The Game!
2005-10-19 :
What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate!
2005-10-12 :
In a Sea of Messages, This One's Mixed
2005-10-05 :
Marriage Isn't a Relationship, It's a Format
2005-09-28 :
How Do I Tell Him To Tell Me?
2005-09-21 :
The Better Part of Discretion
2005-09-14 :
Men Won't Approach Me
2005-09-07 :
Would Setting Him Up Be Wrong?
2005-08-24 :
Friendships and False Hopes
2005-08-17 :
The Farmer's Milk
2005-08-10 :
The Harsh Reality
2005-08-03 :
Ex-Wife In The Way
2005-07-27 :
Habitual Self-Sabotage
2005-07-20 :
How To Change A Belief System
2005-07-13 :
Finding Out What Your "Type" Is
2005-07-07 :
Mistrust and "Trustability"
2005-06-29 :
The Difference Between "Trust" and "Respect"
2005-06-22 :
Have I Wasted My Life?
2005-06-15 :
Building the Relationship - Part II
2005-06-08 :
Building the Relationship
2005-06-01 :
The Elusive Relationship
2005-05-25 :
Flirty Girls and Mixed Messages
2005-05-18 :
Cultivating Good Communication Skills
2005-05-04 :
My Girlfriend and Her Fast (Food) Boss
2005-04-27 :
Be Careful About Where You Get Your Advice
2005-04-20 :
At The End of My Sexual Rope!
2005-04-13 :
How Young is Too Young?
2005-04-06 :
I Can't Believe People "Like You"!
2005-03-30 :
My Girlfriend is a Spy!
2005-03-23 :
Mr. Nice Guy
2005-03-16 :
Help! My Boyfriend is the Girlfriend!
2005-03-09 :
Should I Marry "The One"?
2005-03-02 :
A Sense of Urgency
2005-02-23 :
My Girl Flirts
2005-02-17 :
Hold Your Dates In Person
2005-02-09 :
We're Not Communicating
2005-02-02 :
When to Pop The (Other) Question
2005-01-26 :
Am I Missing My G-Spot?
2005-01-19 :
Should I Let My Girlfriend Go and Get Married?
2005-01-12 :
My Girlfriend is Married
2005-01-05 :
All My Men's Is Friends
2004-12-29 :
Too Shy to Try
2004-12-22 :
Divorce, the Kids, Family and Me
2004-12-15 :
A Case Where Truth Doesn't Hurt
2004-12-08 :
How Do I Know She Loves Me?
2004-12-01 :
How Do I "Divorce The Ex"?
2004-11-24 :
She's Going to Show You What Real 'Hurt' Is
2004-11-10 :
The "Owned Woman"
2004-11-03 :
The "Inter-Dependent" Relationship
2004-10-27 :
Fear, As a Motivator
2004-10-20 :
Could These Balls Be Yours, By Chance?
2004-10-13 :
'Right-Sizing' Your Relationship
2004-09-29 :
How to Keep it "Just Sex"
2004-09-22 :
The Cheating Girlfriend
2004-09-15 :
The "Selfish Woman" Syndrome
2004-09-08 :
A Total Lack of Respect
2004-08-25 :
The Mathematics of Moving In Together
2004-08-18 :
Your Cheatin' Heart
2004-08-11 :
Just What Is a "Committed Relationship" Anyway?
2004-08-04 :
Fighting Keeps Ending My Relationships!
2004-07-28 :
Does My Girlfriend Love Me?
2004-07-21 :
Is He Jerking Me By Jerking Off?
2004-07-14 :
Dating Interracially
2004-07-07 :
It's Really About Your Goals
2004-06-30 :
Who is REALLY the Problem Here?
2004-05-26 :
Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?
2004-05-19 :
Dating While Still Being In a Relationship
2004-05-12 :
I Can't Get Him To Leave
2004-04-28 :
Get Over It Already!
2004-04-21 :
Dating With A.D.D.
2004-04-14 :
Living Together Before Marriage
2004-03-31 :
Being a Coward and Taking It Slow
2004-03-24 :
I Don't Trust Myself
2004-03-17 :
What Do Men Really Want?
2004-03-10 :
Financial Accounting in Relationships
2004-03-03 :
The Secret To Getting Men to Commit
2004-02-11 :
Being Used - and Abused
2004-02-04 :
A Case of Mistaken Virginity
2004-01-28 :
Being Shy Is Only An Excuse!
2004-01-21 :
Clarification on Breaking Up
2004-01-14 :
The Perils of Internet Dating
2004-01-07 :
Masturbation
2003-12-31 :
Learning to Be a Man During a Breakup
2003-12-24 :
Reviving the Stale Relationship
2003-12-17 :
Notes on Working Bars and Clubs
2003-12-10 :
Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part II
2003-12-03 :
Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part I
2003-11-27 :
"The Test" and "The Challenge"
2003-11-19 :
Compliments and "Metacompliments"
2003-11-12 :
Ready to Jump In and Ruin Our Future!
2003-10-29 :
The Sexless, Passionless Lifestyle
2003-10-22 :
Time to Kick Your "Inner Child's" Little Ass!
2003-10-15 :
The "Insider Friend"
2003-10-08 :
The "Friend" That Broke Up A Relationship
2003-09-17 :
That Elusive G-Spot!
2003-09-10 :
Why Doesn't He Want What I Want?
2003-08-27 :
Pending Marriage Causes Concern
2003-08-06 :
The Big "O"
2003-07-30 :
Is It Better to Give or Receive?
2003-07-23 :
Testing by Proxy
2003-07-16 :
When the Rules Change
2003-07-09 :
Learning to Trust
2003-07-02 :
My "Friend" Wants More!
2003-06-25 :
Manipulation and Game Playing
2003-06-11 :
Love Isn't An Excuse To Be Abused
2003-06-04 :
Help With Stuttering
2003-05-28 :
With Every Ending, A New Beginning
2003-05-21 :
How To Not Be "Clingy"
2003-05-14 :
My Boyfriend Has Changed His Mind
2003-05-08 :
How Do I Tell If A Woman Is "Sexually Open"?
2003-04-30 :
How to Handle The Check, Et. Al.
2003-04-23 :
Stop The Madness!
2003-04-16 :
It's Marriage or Else!
2003-04-02 :
Where To Look To Find Your Balls
2003-03-26 :
Me, My Ex, My Friend's Ex and The Kids
2003-03-19 :
Dealing With The Self-Centered Guy
2003-03-12 :
How Can Women Be Great In Bed?
2003-03-05 :
The Meaning of Jewelry Changes
2003-02-26 :
The Problems of Living Together
2003-02-19 :
The First Contact in an Email Relationship
2003-02-12 :
Is Sex All There Is?
2003-02-05 :
Dealing With the "Game Buster"
2003-01-29 :
Raising Boys Into Men
2003-01-22 :
No "If's", "And's" – Just One Big "Butt"
2003-01-15 :
Some Women Get Mad When You Say "No"!
2003-01-08 :
The "Divide and Concur" Approach
2003-01-03 :
Holiday Pressure for Commitment
2002-12-27 :
How Slow is Too Slow?
2002-12-11 :
How Do I Get Him To Marry Me?
2002-12-04 :
How to Improve a Sex Life
2002-11-27 :
Controlling Jealousy
2002-11-20 :
My Unfaithful Girlfriend
2002-11-13 :
At a Loss for Being Selfish
2002-11-06 :
Why Are Men Obsessed With Porn?
2002-10-30 :
More on Dating Two (or more) Women at a Time
2002-10-23 :
Love Hurts
2002-10-16 :
Finding the 'G' Spot
2002-10-09 :
Exploring the Approach
2002-10-02 :
How to Help Him be Monogamous
2002-09-25 :
Get Over Being Shy
2002-09-18 :
Getting A Waitress's Phone Number
2002-09-11 :
In Love At A Distance
2002-09-04 :
Healthy and Happy - or Just Hopeless?
2002-08-21 :
Focus on Yourself
2002-08-14 :
Rebuilding Trust
2002-08-07 :
Musings About More Mixed Messages
2002-08-02 :
Failing to Plan? - You're Planning to Fail!
2002-07-31 :
How Can I Get Him Off the Fence?
2002-07-24 :
Stop Being Used
2002-07-10 :
Handling a Difficult Close
2002-07-03 :
How To Handle Success
2002-06-26 :
How Do I Get Her Out of His Life
2002-06-19 :
The Problem With Single Mothers
2002-06-12 :
Massage Revisited: The "Facial Massage"
2002-06-05 :
Making Eye Contact
2002-05-29 :
It's All in the Approach
2002-05-22 :
"Faked Confidence" Revisited Again
2002-05-15 :
"Faked Confidence" Revisited
2002-05-08 :
The Unfaithful Boyfriend
2002-04-24 :
It Takes Two
2002-04-17 :
How to Get A Man To Answer Relationship Questions
2002-04-10 :
From "Sensitive" to "Masculine" in 4 Easy Steps
2002-04-03 :
Am I Her Pet?
2002-03-27 :
How To Start When You Have No Map
2002-03-20 :
Work Your Assets, Not Your Liabilities
2002-03-13 :
When Not To Get Married
2002-03-06 :
Getting Over Social Phobia
2002-02-27 :
When To Introduce Her To Your Friends
2002-02-20 :
Can You Love If You Don't "Like"?
2002-02-13 :
He's Hot, He's Cold, and He's Hot Again!
2002-02-06 :
Guided Visualization as a Key to Success
2002-01-30 :
It's Time to Get Moving With Women
2002-01-23 :
Do I Have a Chance With Him?
2001-12-12 :
She Won't Stop Kissing Her Friends
2001-12-05 :
Help Me Please Mine!
2001-11-28 :
Everybody Has A Past
2001-11-21 :
You Can't "Own" Someone Else!
2001-11-14 :
Have Confidence: Fake it Until You Make It!
2001-11-07 :
She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend!
2001-10-31 :
10 Ways to Know When Your Relationship Is "Right"
2001-10-24 :
Why Do Men Fear Commitment?
2001-10-17 :
Pass On Those Leads
2001-10-10 :
Learning To Be A Sexual Person
2001-10-03 :
Learning To Be A Man
2001-09-21 :
Relationship Management During A Crisis
2001-09-01 :
Breaking Up
2001-09-01 :
First Date Checklist
2001-09-01 :
Giving A Great Massage
2001-09-01 :
Meeting That Someone Special
2001-09-01 :
The Test
2001-09-01 :
The Art of Selling
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