Dr. Dennis Neder, Relationship Author & Columnist
Author of Being a Man in a Woman's World , Dr. Dennis Neder is dedicated to advancing the arts and sciences of relationships. His mantra: start having the relationships you deserve! New articles are posted every Wednesday!
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ARTICLES
2008-11-05 : The Bureaucrat and the Girl
2008-10-29 : This Guy is too Damn Nice
2008-10-22 : I'm Falling, but There's a Problem
2008-10-09 : Many, Many Mixed Signals
2008-10-08 : Marriage Minded?
2008-10-01 : Seth Rogen - The Male Role Model
2008-09-24 : Girlfriend Travels with Ex-Boyfriend
2008-09-17 : Going From Non-Sexual to Sexual
2008-09-03 : In Love with a One-Night-Stand Man
2008-08-28 : Help! I Lied to My Girlfriend!
2008-08-27 : How Much Should You Share With Your Date?
2008-08-06 : A Matter of Trust
2008-07-30 : Game Buster
2008-07-28 : How -and Who- Do Professional Women Date?
2008-07-23 : When the Rules Change Again
2008-07-16 : Being Single or Together - At a Distance
2008-07-09 : Dating Dilemma or Delusion?
2008-06-25 : Did My Compliment Make Him a Lost Cause?
2008-06-18 : Are Women More Sexual Than Men?
2008-06-11 : The 'Date Canceller' and other Feminine Games
2008-06-04 : Getting a Girl to Date Me
2008-05-21 : A Woman's View of 'The Test'
2008-05-07 : Spending Evenings Together
2008-04-30 : Getting My Man to Commit
2008-04-23 : Learning to Climax During Intercourse
2008-04-16 : Falling for a (Somewhat) Older Man
2008-04-09 : Dealing with Rejection
2008-04-02 : My Boyfriend Doesn't Like My Father
2008-03-26 : His Libido
2008-03-19 : She's No Longer Interested?
2008-03-12 : Dating Hell
2008-03-05 : A Special Dating Hell
2008-02-27 : Oral Sex-Less
2008-02-20 : A Dearth of Dates
2008-02-13 : Are Nice Guys a Dying Breed?
2008-02-06 : My Parents Don't Like My Partner
2008-01-30 : Confusing Girl-Games
2008-01-23 : The Cheating Girlfriend 2
2008-01-16 : Should I Give Up Relationships To Have a Career?
2008-01-09 : Who Can Have a Support Network?
2008-01-02 : Learning to Communicate
2007-12-26 : The 'Loaded Weapon'
2007-12-12 : How to Not Stiffen Up on the Approach
2007-12-05 : How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me?
2007-11-28 : How to Buy a Date from a Co-Worker
2007-11-21 : Hot Women Get Dumped for Someone Else
2007-11-14 : Those Hot Women!
2007-11-07 : Sexually Frustrated
2007-10-31 : Turning Down a 'Friend'
2007-10-24 : Asking a Guy Out
2007-10-17 : Should I Contact Her Again?
2007-10-10 : Approaching the Girl
2007-10-03 : Dating in Different Cultures
2007-09-26 : Guy's Girl Wants to Get Back With Her Ex
2007-09-19 : Approach Without Nervousness
2007-09-05 : How to Get Back Into Dating
2007-08-22 : Being Too Shy
2007-08-22 : How to Get One Night Stands
2007-08-15 : Sabotaging Your Relationship
2007-08-08 : Pre-Qualifying a Woman's Digits
2007-08-01 : Lost Without a Trace
2007-07-25 : Men are Dumb Too
2007-07-18 : Women are Dumb
2007-07-12 : The Rules of Fidelity
2007-07-04 : Why So Many Relationships?
2007-06-27 : Keeping My Boyfriend Sexually Attracted
2007-06-20 : How Much is Sex Worth
2007-06-13 : I'm A Snoop
2007-05-25 : Can This Marriage Be Saved?
2007-05-09 : Learning from the Past
2007-05-02 : Meeting Women in a Book or Music Shop
2007-04-25 : Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out
2007-04-18 : Does My Boyfriend Appreciate Me
2007-04-11 : Girls: Learn How To Say 'Yes'
2007-04-04 : Lying is Bad - Um-Kay?
2007-03-28 : The Cowardice of "Taking Breaks"
2007-03-21 : How to NOT Impress Women With Gifts
2007-03-14 : 10-Steps To Constructive Arguing
2007-03-07 : Air-Sick Bag, Please!
2007-02-28 : Should I Get Married?
2007-02-21 : After the Fight
2007-02-14 : Turn Her into a "Social Butterfly"
2007-02-07 : Where in the Hell are They? (Potential Partners)
2007-01-24 : Game-Playing Girlfriend
2007-01-17 : Why "Working it From the Inside" Doesn't Work
2007-01-10 : You Better Know How to Handle "The Test"!
2006-12-28 : Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One of Them
2006-12-20 : Trouble in Break-Up City
2006-12-13 : The Reality of "Being Friends"
2006-12-06 : My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!
2006-11-15 : How To Attract Women
2006-11-08 : What's Her Problem?
2006-11-01 : Is "Needing Someone" Unhealthy?
2006-10-25 : The Problem with Dating Farm Animals
2006-10-18 : The Problem: Inertia
2006-10-11 : The Girl at Work
2006-10-04 : Which is Best - Same or Different?
2006-09-28 : Husband Kicked Out of the House
2006-09-20 : The Older Woman
2006-09-13 : Dealing with Differences in Sex Drives
2006-09-06 : How Long Does Sex Take?
2006-08-30 : Do You Think She Likes Me?
2006-08-25 : Dealing With the Fear of Rejection
2006-08-16 : 10 Ways Women Can Be Lousy In Bed
2006-08-09 : Marriage and Religion
2006-08-02 : She's Commitment Phobic
2006-07-26 : Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway?
2006-07-19 : Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!
2006-07-12 : Learn to Kiss, Dammit!
2006-07-05 : The Guy That Wants to Get Married
2006-06-28 : Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend
2006-06-21 : How Women Can Approach Men
2006-06-14 : Getting Past Your Past
2006-06-07 : Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities
2006-05-31 : Find What Makes You Happy
2006-05-24 : I Don't Want to Look Like an Idiot!
2006-05-17 : Moving On and Knowing That You've Moved On
2006-05-16 : Going Through Hell
2006-05-10 : Handling Call-Backs, Messages and Setting Dates
2006-05-03 : Should I Call to Confirm a Date?
2006-04-26 : It's the Choices You Make Now
2006-04-19 : Messing Up The Perfect Thing
2006-04-05 : A Sensitive/Sensitivity Problem
2006-03-29 : Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship
2006-03-15 : The Magic of the Approach
2006-03-08 : The Three Keys to the Cold Approach
2006-03-01 : Have I Been Replaced?
2006-02-23 : I Feel Like I've Been Waiting Forever!
2006-02-15 : How Do I Make It Through?
2006-02-10 : Do Men Respect Women?
2006-02-01 : Building Experience From Inexperience
2006-01-25 : Why Can't I Meet Someone That's Available?
2006-01-18 : Is it Time to Move in Together?
2006-01-11 : Do YOU Have Different Rules For Women?
2006-01-05 : Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'?
2005-12-28 : Break-Up Fake-Out, or Move Out Without the Lout?
2005-12-21 : How Big a Gift is Appropriate?
2005-12-14 : Is She Just A Habit?
2005-12-07 : Strong Women, Submissive Women
2005-11-30 : How to Deal with the Silent Treatment
2005-11-23 : My Flaky Girl Problem
2005-11-16 : Knowledge *IS* Power - When You Have It!
2005-11-09 : You Have To Learn The Game!
2005-10-19 : What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate!
2005-10-12 : In a Sea of Messages, This One's Mixed
2005-10-05 : Marriage Isn't a Relationship, It's a Format
2005-09-28 : How Do I Tell Him To Tell Me?
2005-09-21 : The Better Part of Discretion
2005-09-14 : Men Won't Approach Me
2005-09-07 : Would Setting Him Up Be Wrong?
2005-08-24 : Friendships and False Hopes
2005-08-17 : The Farmer's Milk
2005-08-10 : The Harsh Reality
2005-08-03 : Ex-Wife In The Way
2005-07-27 : Habitual Self-Sabotage
2005-07-20 : How To Change A Belief System
2005-07-13 : Finding Out What Your "Type" Is
2005-07-07 : Mistrust and "Trustability"
2005-06-29 : The Difference Between "Trust" and "Respect"
2005-06-22 : Have I Wasted My Life?
2005-06-15 : Building the Relationship - Part II
2005-06-08 : Building the Relationship
2005-06-01 : The Elusive Relationship
2005-05-25 : Flirty Girls and Mixed Messages
2005-05-18 : Cultivating Good Communication Skills
2005-05-04 : My Girlfriend and Her Fast (Food) Boss
2005-04-27 : Be Careful About Where You Get Your Advice
2005-04-20 : At The End of My Sexual Rope!
2005-04-13 : How Young is Too Young?
2005-04-06 : I Can't Believe People "Like You"!
2005-03-30 : My Girlfriend is a Spy!
2005-03-23 : Mr. Nice Guy
2005-03-16 : Help! My Boyfriend is the Girlfriend!
2005-03-09 : Should I Marry "The One"?
2005-03-02 : A Sense of Urgency
2005-02-23 : My Girl Flirts
2005-02-17 : Hold Your Dates In Person
2005-02-09 : We're Not Communicating
2005-02-02 : When to Pop The (Other) Question
2005-01-26 : Am I Missing My G-Spot?
2005-01-19 : Should I Let My Girlfriend Go and Get Married?
2005-01-12 : My Girlfriend is Married
2005-01-05 : All My Men's Is Friends
2004-12-29 : Too Shy to Try
2004-12-22 : Divorce, the Kids, Family and Me
2004-12-15 : A Case Where Truth Doesn't Hurt
2004-12-08 : How Do I Know She Loves Me?
2004-12-01 : How Do I "Divorce The Ex"?
2004-11-24 : She's Going to Show You What Real 'Hurt' Is
2004-11-10 : The "Owned Woman"
2004-11-03 : The "Inter-Dependent" Relationship
2004-10-27 : Fear, As a Motivator
2004-10-20 : Could These Balls Be Yours, By Chance?
2004-10-13 : 'Right-Sizing' Your Relationship
2004-09-29 : How to Keep it "Just Sex"
2004-09-22 : The Cheating Girlfriend
2004-09-15 : The "Selfish Woman" Syndrome
2004-09-08 : A Total Lack of Respect
2004-08-25 : The Mathematics of Moving In Together
2004-08-18 : Your Cheatin' Heart
2004-08-11 : Just What Is a "Committed Relationship" Anyway?
2004-08-04 : Fighting Keeps Ending My Relationships!
2004-07-28 : Does My Girlfriend Love Me?
2004-07-21 : Is He Jerking Me By Jerking Off?
2004-07-14 : Dating Interracially
2004-07-07 : It's Really About Your Goals
2004-06-30 : Who is REALLY the Problem Here?
2004-05-26 : Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?
2004-05-19 : Dating While Still Being In a Relationship
2004-05-12 : I Can't Get Him To Leave
2004-04-28 : Get Over It Already!
2004-04-21 : Dating With A.D.D.
2004-04-14 : Living Together Before Marriage
2004-03-31 : Being a Coward and Taking It Slow
2004-03-24 : I Don't Trust Myself
2004-03-17 : What Do Men Really Want?
2004-03-10 : Financial Accounting in Relationships
2004-03-03 : The Secret To Getting Men to Commit
2004-02-11 : Being Used - and Abused
2004-02-04 : A Case of Mistaken Virginity
2004-01-28 : Being Shy Is Only An Excuse!
2004-01-21 : Clarification on Breaking Up
2004-01-14 : The Perils of Internet Dating
2004-01-07 : Masturbation
2003-12-31 : Learning to Be a Man During a Breakup
2003-12-24 : Reviving the Stale Relationship
2003-12-17 : Notes on Working Bars and Clubs
2003-12-10 : Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part II
2003-12-03 : Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part I
2003-11-27 : "The Test" and "The Challenge"
2003-11-19 : Compliments and "Metacompliments"
2003-11-12 : Ready to Jump In and Ruin Our Future!
2003-10-29 : The Sexless, Passionless Lifestyle
2003-10-22 : Time to Kick Your "Inner Child's" Little Ass!
2003-10-15 : The "Insider Friend"
2003-10-08 : The "Friend" That Broke Up A Relationship
2003-09-17 : That Elusive G-Spot!
2003-09-10 : Why Doesn't He Want What I Want?
2003-08-27 : Pending Marriage Causes Concern
2003-08-06 : The Big "O"
2003-07-30 : Is It Better to Give or Receive?
2003-07-23 : Testing by Proxy
2003-07-16 : When the Rules Change
2003-07-09 : Learning to Trust
2003-07-02 : My "Friend" Wants More!
2003-06-25 : Manipulation and Game Playing
2003-06-11 : Love Isn't An Excuse To Be Abused
2003-06-04 : Help With Stuttering
2003-05-28 : With Every Ending, A New Beginning
2003-05-21 : How To Not Be "Clingy"
2003-05-14 : My Boyfriend Has Changed His Mind
2003-05-08 : How Do I Tell If A Woman Is "Sexually Open"?
2003-04-30 : How to Handle The Check, Et. Al.
2003-04-23 : Stop The Madness!
2003-04-16 : It's Marriage or Else!
2003-04-02 : Where To Look To Find Your Balls
2003-03-26 : Me, My Ex, My Friend's Ex and The Kids
2003-03-19 : Dealing With The Self-Centered Guy
2003-03-12 : How Can Women Be Great In Bed?
2003-03-05 : The Meaning of Jewelry Changes
2003-02-26 : The Problems of Living Together
2003-02-19 : The First Contact in an Email Relationship
2003-02-12 : Is Sex All There Is?
2003-02-05 : Dealing With the "Game Buster"
2003-01-29 : Raising Boys Into Men
2003-01-22 : No "If's", "And's" -- Just One Big "Butt"
2003-01-15 : Some Women Get Mad When You Say "No"!
2003-01-08 : The "Divide and Concur" Approach
2003-01-03 : Holiday Pressure for Commitment
2002-12-27 : How Slow is Too Slow?
2002-12-11 : How Do I Get Him To Marry Me?
2002-12-04 : How to Improve a Sex Life
2002-11-27 : Controlling Jealousy
2002-11-20 : My Unfaithful Girlfriend
2002-11-13 : At a Loss for Being Selfish
2002-11-06 : Why Are Men Obsessed With Porn?
2002-10-30 : More on Dating Two (or more) Women at a Time
2002-10-23 : Love Hurts
2002-10-16 : Finding the 'G' Spot
2002-10-09 : Exploring the Approach
2002-10-02 : How to Help Him be Monogamous
2002-09-25 : Get Over Being Shy
2002-09-18 : Getting A Waitress's Phone Number
2002-09-11 : In Love At A Distance
2002-09-04 : Healthy and Happy - or Just Hopeless?
2002-08-21 : Focus on Yourself
2002-08-14 : Rebuilding Trust
2002-08-07 : Musings About More Mixed Messages
2002-08-02 : Failing to Plan? - You're Planning to Fail!
2002-07-31 : How Can I Get Him Off the Fence?
2002-07-24 : Stop Being Used
2002-07-10 : Handling a Difficult Close
2002-07-03 : How To Handle Success
2002-06-26 : How Do I Get Her Out of His Life
2002-06-19 : The Problem With Single Mothers
2002-06-12 : Massage Revisited: The "Facial Massage"
2002-06-05 : Making Eye Contact
2002-05-29 : It's All in the Approach
2002-05-22 : "Faked Confidence" Revisited Again
2002-05-15 : "Faked Confidence" Revisited
2002-05-08 : The Unfaithful Boyfriend
2002-04-24 : It Takes Two
2002-04-17 : How to Get A Man To Answer Relationship Questions
2002-04-10 : From "Sensitive" to "Masculine" in 4 Easy Steps
2002-04-03 : Am I Her Pet?
2002-03-27 : How To Start When You Have No Map
2002-03-20 : Work Your Assets, Not Your Liabilities
2002-03-13 : When Not To Get Married
2002-03-06 : Getting Over Social Phobia
2002-02-27 : When To Introduce Her To Your Friends
2002-02-20 : Can You Love If You Don't "Like"?
2002-02-13 : He's Hot, He's Cold, and He's Hot Again!
2002-02-06 : Guided Visualization as a Key to Success
2002-01-30 : It's Time to Get Moving With Women
2002-01-23 : Do I Have a Chance With Him?
2001-12-12 : She Won't Stop Kissing Her Friends
2001-12-05 : Help Me Please Mine!
2001-11-28 : Everybody Has A Past
2001-11-21 : You Can't "Own" Someone Else!
2001-11-14 : Have Confidence: Fake it Until You Make It!
2001-11-07 : She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend!
2001-10-31 : 10 Ways to Know When Your Relationship Is "Right"
2001-10-24 : Why Do Men Fear Commitment?
2001-10-17 : Pass On Those Leads
2001-10-10 : Learning To Be A Sexual Person
2001-10-03 : Learning To Be A Man
2001-09-21 : Relationship Management During A Crisis
2001-09-01 : Breaking Up
2001-09-01 : First Date Checklist
2001-09-01 : Giving A Great Massage
2001-09-01 : Meeting That Someone Special
2001-09-01 : The Test
2001-09-01 : The Art of Selling