Dr. Dennis Neder, Relationship Author & Columnist

2008-11-05: The Bureaucrat and the Girl

2008-10-29: This Guy is too Damn Nice

2008-10-22: I'm Falling, but There's a Problem

2008-10-09: Many, Many Mixed Signals

2008-10-08: Marriage Minded?

2008-10-01: Seth Rogen - The Male Role Model

2008-09-24: Girlfriend Travels with Ex-Boyfriend

2008-09-17: Going From Non-Sexual to Sexual

2008-09-03: In Love with a One-Night-Stand Man

2008-08-28: Help! I Lied to My Girlfriend!

2008-08-27: How Much Should You Share With Your Date?

2008-08-06: A Matter of Trust

2008-07-30: Game Buster

2008-07-28: How -and Who- Do Professional Women Date?

2008-07-23: When the Rules Change Again

2008-07-16: Being Single or Together - At a Distance

2008-07-09: Dating Dilemma or Delusion?

2008-06-25: Did My Compliment Make Him a Lost Cause?

2008-06-18: Are Women More Sexual Than Men?

2008-06-11: The 'Date Canceller' and other Feminine Games

2008-06-04: Getting a Girl to Date Me

2008-05-21: A Woman's View of 'The Test'

2008-05-07: Spending Evenings Together

2008-04-30: Getting My Man to Commit

2008-04-23: Learning to Climax During Intercourse

2008-04-16: Falling for a (Somewhat) Older Man

2008-04-09: Dealing with Rejection

2008-04-02: My Boyfriend Doesn't Like My Father

2008-03-26: His Libido

2008-03-19: She's No Longer Interested?

2008-03-12: Dating Hell

2008-03-05: A Special Dating Hell

2008-02-27: Oral Sex-Less

2008-02-20: A Dearth of Dates

2008-02-13: Are Nice Guys a Dying Breed?

2008-02-06: My Parents Don't Like My Partner

2008-01-30: Confusing Girl-Games

2008-01-23: The Cheating Girlfriend 2

2008-01-16: Should I Give Up Relationships To Have a Career?

2008-01-09: Who Can Have a Support Network?

2008-01-02: Learning to Communicate

2007-12-26: The 'Loaded Weapon'

2007-12-12: How to Not Stiffen Up on the Approach

2007-12-05: How Can I Get Him to Never Leave Me?

2007-11-28: How to Buy a Date from a Co-Worker

2007-11-21: Hot Women Get Dumped for Someone Else

2007-11-14: Those Hot Women!

2007-11-07: Sexually Frustrated

2007-10-31: Turning Down a 'Friend'

2007-10-24: Asking a Guy Out

2007-10-17: Should I Contact Her Again?

2007-10-10: Approaching the Girl

2007-10-03: Dating in Different Cultures

2007-09-26: Guy's Girl Wants to Get Back With Her Ex

2007-09-19: Approach Without Nervousness

2007-09-05: How to Get Back Into Dating

2007-08-22: Being Too Shy

2007-08-22: How to Get One Night Stands

2007-08-15: Sabotaging Your Relationship

2007-08-08: Pre-Qualifying a Woman's Digits

2007-08-01: Lost Without a Trace

2007-07-25: Men are Dumb Too

2007-07-18: Women are Dumb

2007-07-12: The Rules of Fidelity

2007-07-04: Why So Many Relationships?

2007-06-27: Keeping My Boyfriend Sexually Attracted

2007-06-20: How Much is Sex Worth

2007-06-13: I'm A Snoop

2007-05-25: Can This Marriage Be Saved?

2007-05-09: Learning from the Past

2007-05-02: Meeting Women in a Book or Music Shop

2007-04-25: Should a Woman Ask a Guy Out

2007-04-18: Does My Boyfriend Appreciate Me

2007-04-11: Girls: Learn How To Say 'Yes'

2007-04-04: Lying is Bad - Um-Kay?

2007-03-28: The Cowardice of "Taking Breaks"

2007-03-21: How to NOT Impress Women With Gifts

2007-03-14: 10-Steps To Constructive Arguing

2007-03-07: Air-Sick Bag, Please!

2007-02-28: Should I Get Married?

2007-02-21: After the Fight

2007-02-14: Turn Her into a "Social Butterfly"

2007-02-07: Where in the Hell are They? (Potential Partners)

2007-01-24: Game-Playing Girlfriend

2007-01-17: Why "Working it From the Inside" Doesn't Work

2007-01-10: You Better Know How to Handle "The Test"!

2006-12-28: Date Like a Model, Even if You're Not One of Them

2006-12-20: Trouble in Break-Up City

2006-12-13: The Reality of "Being Friends"

2006-12-06: My Neighbor's Hot - And She Knows It!

2006-11-15: How To Attract Women

2006-11-08: What's Her Problem?

2006-11-01: Is "Needing Someone" Unhealthy?

2006-10-25: The Problem with Dating Farm Animals

2006-10-18: The Problem: Inertia

2006-10-11: The Girl at Work

2006-10-04: Which is Best - Same or Different?

2006-09-28: Husband Kicked Out of the House

2006-09-20: The Older Woman

2006-09-13: Dealing with Differences in Sex Drives

2006-09-06: How Long Does Sex Take?

2006-08-30: Do You Think She Likes Me?

2006-08-25: Dealing With the Fear of Rejection

2006-08-16: 10 Ways Women Can Be Lousy In Bed

2006-08-09: Marriage and Religion

2006-08-02: She's Commitment Phobic

2006-07-26: Just How Does A Guy Meet A Girl, Anyway?

2006-07-19: Talk is Cheap - Learn to Do It Right!

2006-07-12: Learn to Kiss, Dammit!

2006-07-05: The Guy That Wants to Get Married

2006-06-28: Sexless Relationship, Missing Boyfriend

2006-06-21: How Women Can Approach Men

2006-06-14: Getting Past Your Past

2006-06-07: Dating Rights Verse Dating Responsibilities

2006-05-31: Find What Makes You Happy

2006-05-24: I Don't Want to Look Like an Idiot!

2006-05-17: Moving On and Knowing That You've Moved On

2006-05-16: Going Through Hell

2006-05-10: Handling Call-Backs, Messages and Setting Dates

2006-05-03: Should I Call to Confirm a Date?

2006-04-26: It's the Choices You Make Now

2006-04-19: Messing Up The Perfect Thing

2006-04-05: A Sensitive/Sensitivity Problem

2006-03-29: Grow Yourself, Grow Your Relationship

2006-03-15: The Magic of the Approach

2006-03-08: The Three Keys to the Cold Approach

2006-03-01: Have I Been Replaced?

2006-02-23: I Feel Like I've Been Waiting Forever!

2006-02-15: How Do I Make It Through?

2006-02-10: Do Men Respect Women?

2006-02-01: Building Experience From Inexperience

2006-01-25: Why Can't I Meet Someone That's Available?

2006-01-18: Is it Time to Move in Together?

2006-01-11: Do YOU Have Different Rules For Women?

2006-01-05: Why It's So Hard To Not Be A 'Nice Guy'?

2005-12-28: Break-Up Fake-Out, or Move Out Without the Lout?

2005-12-21: How Big a Gift is Appropriate?

2005-12-14: Is She Just A Habit?

2005-12-07: Strong Women, Submissive Women

2005-11-30: How to Deal with the Silent Treatment

2005-11-23: My Flaky Girl Problem

2005-11-16: Knowledge *IS* Power - When You Have It!

2005-11-09: You Have To Learn The Game!

2005-10-19: What We Have Here Is a Failure to Communicate!

2005-10-12: In a Sea of Messages, This One's Mixed

2005-10-05: Marriage Isn't a Relationship, It's a Format

2005-09-28: How Do I Tell Him To Tell Me?

2005-09-21: The Better Part of Discretion

2005-09-14: Men Won't Approach Me

2005-09-07: Would Setting Him Up Be Wrong?

2005-08-24: Friendships and False Hopes

2005-08-17: The Farmer's Milk

2005-08-10: The Harsh Reality

2005-08-03: Ex-Wife In The Way

2005-07-27: Habitual Self-Sabotage

2005-07-20: How To Change A Belief System

2005-07-13: Finding Out What Your "Type" Is

2005-07-07: Mistrust and "Trustability"

2005-06-29: The Difference Between "Trust" and "Respect"

2005-06-22: Have I Wasted My Life?

2005-06-15: Building the Relationship - Part II

2005-06-08: Building the Relationship

2005-06-01: The Elusive Relationship

2005-05-25: Flirty Girls and Mixed Messages

2005-05-18: Cultivating Good Communication Skills

2005-05-04: My Girlfriend and Her Fast (Food) Boss

2005-04-27: Be Careful About Where You Get Your Advice

2005-04-20: At The End of My Sexual Rope!

2005-04-13: How Young is Too Young?

2005-04-06: I Can't Believe People "Like You"!

2005-03-30: My Girlfriend is a Spy!

2005-03-23: Mr. Nice Guy

2005-03-16: Help! My Boyfriend is the Girlfriend!

2005-03-09: Should I Marry "The One"?

2005-03-02: A Sense of Urgency

2005-02-23: My Girl Flirts

2005-02-17: Hold Your Dates In Person

2005-02-09: We're Not Communicating

2005-02-02: When to Pop The (Other) Question

2005-01-26: Am I Missing My G-Spot?

2005-01-19: Should I Let My Girlfriend Go and Get Married?

2005-01-12: My Girlfriend is Married

2005-01-05: All My Men's Is Friends

2004-12-29: Too Shy to Try

2004-12-22: Divorce, the Kids, Family and Me

2004-12-15: A Case Where Truth Doesn't Hurt

2004-12-08: How Do I Know She Loves Me?

2004-12-01: How Do I "Divorce The Ex"?

2004-11-24: She's Going to Show You What Real 'Hurt' Is

2004-11-10: The "Owned Woman"

2004-11-03: The "Inter-Dependent" Relationship

2004-10-27: Fear, As a Motivator

2004-10-20: Could These Balls Be Yours, By Chance?

2004-10-13: 'Right-Sizing' Your Relationship

2004-09-29: How to Keep it "Just Sex"

2004-09-22: The Cheating Girlfriend

2004-09-15: The "Selfish Woman" Syndrome

2004-09-08: A Total Lack of Respect

2004-08-25: The Mathematics of Moving In Together

2004-08-18: Your Cheatin' Heart

2004-08-11: Just What Is a "Committed Relationship" Anyway?

2004-08-04: Fighting Keeps Ending My Relationships!

2004-07-28: Does My Girlfriend Love Me?

2004-07-21: Is He Jerking Me By Jerking Off?

2004-07-14: Dating Interracially

2004-07-07: It's Really About Your Goals

2004-06-30: Who is REALLY the Problem Here?

2004-05-26: Am I Sabotaging My Relationship?

2004-05-19: Dating While Still Being In a Relationship

2004-05-12: I Can't Get Him To Leave

2004-04-28: Get Over It Already!

2004-04-21: Dating With A.D.D.

2004-04-14: Living Together Before Marriage

2004-03-31: Being a Coward and Taking It Slow

2004-03-24: I Don't Trust Myself

2004-03-17: What Do Men Really Want?

2004-03-10: Financial Accounting in Relationships

2004-03-03: The Secret To Getting Men to Commit

2004-02-11: Being Used - and Abused

2004-02-04: A Case of Mistaken Virginity

2004-01-28: Being Shy Is Only An Excuse!

2004-01-21: Clarification on Breaking Up

2004-01-14: The Perils of Internet Dating

2004-01-07: Masturbation

2003-12-31: Learning to Be a Man During a Breakup

2003-12-24: Reviving the Stale Relationship

2003-12-17: Notes on Working Bars and Clubs

2003-12-10: Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part II

2003-12-03: Communication and "Sexual Conversion" Part I

2003-11-27: "The Test" and "The Challenge"

2003-11-19: Compliments and "Metacompliments"

2003-11-12: Ready to Jump In and Ruin Our Future!

2003-10-29: The Sexless, Passionless Lifestyle

2003-10-22: Time to Kick Your "Inner Child's" Little Ass!

2003-10-15: The "Insider Friend"

2003-10-08: The "Friend" That Broke Up A Relationship

2003-09-17: That Elusive G-Spot!

2003-09-10: Why Doesn't He Want What I Want?

2003-08-27: Pending Marriage Causes Concern

2003-08-06: The Big "O"

2003-07-30: Is It Better to Give or Receive?

2003-07-23: Testing by Proxy

2003-07-16: When the Rules Change

2003-07-09: Learning to Trust

2003-07-02: My "Friend" Wants More!

2003-06-25: Manipulation and Game Playing

2003-06-11: Love Isn't An Excuse To Be Abused

2003-06-04: Help With Stuttering

2003-05-28: With Every Ending, A New Beginning

2003-05-21: How To Not Be "Clingy"

2003-05-14: My Boyfriend Has Changed His Mind

2003-05-08: How Do I Tell If A Woman Is "Sexually Open"?

2003-04-30: How to Handle The Check, Et. Al.

2003-04-23: Stop The Madness!

2003-04-16: It's Marriage or Else!

2003-04-02: Where To Look To Find Your Balls

2003-03-26: Me, My Ex, My Friend's Ex and The Kids

2003-03-19: Dealing With The Self-Centered Guy

2003-03-12: How Can Women Be Great In Bed?

2003-03-05: The Meaning of Jewelry Changes

2003-02-26: The Problems of Living Together

2003-02-19: The First Contact in an Email Relationship

2003-02-12: Is Sex All There Is?

2003-02-05: Dealing With the "Game Buster"

2003-01-29: Raising Boys Into Men

2003-01-22: No "If's", "And's" -- Just One Big "Butt"

2003-01-15: Some Women Get Mad When You Say "No"!

2003-01-08: The "Divide and Concur" Approach

2003-01-03: Holiday Pressure for Commitment

2002-12-27: How Slow is Too Slow?

2002-12-11: How Do I Get Him To Marry Me?

2002-12-04: How to Improve a Sex Life

2002-11-27: Controlling Jealousy

2002-11-20: My Unfaithful Girlfriend

2002-11-13: At a Loss for Being Selfish

2002-11-06: Why Are Men Obsessed With Porn?

2002-10-30: More on Dating Two (or more) Women at a Time

2002-10-23: Love Hurts

2002-10-16: Finding the 'G' Spot

2002-10-09: Exploring the Approach

2002-10-02: How to Help Him be Monogamous

2002-09-25: Get Over Being Shy

2002-09-18: Getting A Waitress's Phone Number

2002-09-11: In Love At A Distance

2002-09-04: Healthy and Happy - or Just Hopeless?

2002-08-21: Focus on Yourself

2002-08-14: Rebuilding Trust

2002-08-07: Musings About More Mixed Messages

2002-08-02: Failing to Plan? - You're Planning to Fail!

2002-07-31: How Can I Get Him Off the Fence?

2002-07-24: Stop Being Used

2002-07-10: Handling a Difficult Close

2002-07-03: How To Handle Success

2002-06-26: How Do I Get Her Out of His Life

2002-06-19: The Problem With Single Mothers

2002-06-12: Massage Revisited: The "Facial Massage"

2002-06-05: Making Eye Contact

2002-05-29: It's All in the Approach

2002-05-22: "Faked Confidence" Revisited Again

2002-05-15: "Faked Confidence" Revisited

2002-05-08: The Unfaithful Boyfriend

2002-04-24: It Takes Two

2002-04-17: How to Get A Man To Answer Relationship Questions

2002-04-10: From "Sensitive" to "Masculine" in 4 Easy Steps

2002-04-03: Am I Her Pet?

2002-03-27: How To Start When You Have No Map

2002-03-20: Work Your Assets, Not Your Liabilities

2002-03-13: When Not To Get Married

2002-03-06: Getting Over Social Phobia

2002-02-27: When To Introduce Her To Your Friends

2002-02-20: Can You Love If You Don't "Like"?

2002-02-13: He's Hot, He's Cold, and He's Hot Again!

2002-02-06: Guided Visualization as a Key to Success

2002-01-30: It's Time to Get Moving With Women

2002-01-23: Do I Have a Chance With Him?

2001-12-12: She Won't Stop Kissing Her Friends

2001-12-05: Help Me Please Mine!

2001-11-28: Everybody Has A Past

2001-11-21: You Can't "Own" Someone Else!

2001-11-14: Have Confidence: Fake it Until You Make It!

2001-11-07: She Doesn't Need Another Girlfriend!

2001-10-31: 10 Ways to Know When Your Relationship Is "Right"

2001-10-24: Why Do Men Fear Commitment?

2001-10-17: Pass On Those Leads

2001-10-10: Learning To Be A Sexual Person

2001-10-03: Learning To Be A Man

2001-09-21: Relationship Management During A Crisis

2001-09-01: Breaking Up

2001-09-01: First Date Checklist

2001-09-01: Giving A Great Massage

2001-09-01: Meeting That Someone Special

2001-09-01: The Test

2001-09-01: The Art of Selling