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Give Your Man A Hand
Whether you want to add variety to your lovemaking with your man, or you don't want to have intercourse, for whatever reason, masturbating him in as many ways possible is a great way to keep your sex life stimulating.
"Not tonight" are the words men most hate. But, there are times when you aren't in the mood. This is where giving him a hand job makes both of you happy. And if he is the kind of man who is understanding, he won't care if all you are up for is to give him a hand job.
But, make it more pleasurable for him by doing an array of variations. And, since men are visual, take your top off, sit down Indian style, have him wrap his legs around your waist so he is up close to you, and give him the best hand job he has ever had. Here are some of the best variations you can use for each time you give him a hand job:
THE STOP AND GO HAND JOB
Here is a great technique if he wants it to last. What you simply do stop masturbating him just as he is about to cum. Once he is relaxed, start to masturbate him again. Repeat this process over a few times, or, until he can no longer handle it.
THE SHOWER HAND JOB
Have him stand in the shower facing the wall side and put his left leg on the shelf. Take the hand held shower head and hold it upside down in your hand. Direct the spray towards his anus and scrotum and let the jets of water do its thing, while you masturbate him with your other hand. Every now and then don't forget to tickle his sack.
THE FOOT MASSAGER HAND JOB
A foot massager, like the kind found in Brookstone or Sharper Image, makes for a great little toy for the both of you.
Make sure it has Vibrate (shiatsu is no good). Place it foot-side-down on or underneath his his balls, while masturbating him at the same time.
THE TOOTHPASTE HAND JOB
Cover his balls and penis in tooth paste. Wait for about 30 seconds, or until he starts to feel a burning sensation (good sensation). Slowly start to masturbate him.
THE SILKY HAND JOB
Use your silk sheets or a handkerchief to get him off. He'll love the feel of the fabric. You can also use your underwear. Heat it up in the microwave for about 60 seconds to give him that very warm feeling.
Another thing you can use is your long hair. This is, without a doubt, a very stimulating sight for men. If you don't have long hair, you may want to try wearing a long wig. He will love you for it. Remember, men are VERY visual.
THE CLASPING HAND JOB
Clasp your hands, as if you are praying, around his penis and masturbate him that way. This is great for women whose wrists tire easy. You can use both hands to keep the motion going.
Remember to tighten the clasp of your hands during the upward strokes, and especially on the tip of his penis.
THE SCRATCH AND STRETCH HAND JOB
While you are masturbating him, pull on his scrotum sack. Don't be afraid to really stretch it. It's a feeling men love. Also gently scratch it, along with gentle scratches on his inner thighs.
THE FULL ATTENTION HAND JOB
Just like the name suggests, you give his whole penis your full attention. While you are masturbating him with one hand, use the other to rub the tip of his penis with the palm of your hand in a circular motion. Make sure that hand is well lubricated.
As you can already see, hand jobs can be very stimulating for men. So much that he may want more hand-job sessions as opposed to intercourse. That could be a good thing, or a bad thing for you!
As an added bonus, keep these three things in mind:
ONE:
Talk dirty to him. Tell him how good his penis feels in your hand, and that you want to see his hot load shoot up in the air. Think of new things to say to him to get him even more excited.
He does not want to hear about anything else! If you can't think of anything, don't talk. He doesn't want to hear about how his day went while you are masturbating him!
TWO:
Don't sigh or give facial expressions that you are tired, or that you, HAVE, to do this. Part of what is so stimulating for him is that you are loving it also.
THREE:
Always remember this, if you don't know already, as he is about to come, concentrate on the underneath tip area, since that is where most of his sensitive nerve ending are. Don't go down all the way to his shaft anymore. Rub the tip of his penis, and keep rubbing until you get out that last drop. In fact, don't stop until he lets you know. Stopping during that crucial moment of him cumming could ruin the whole thing for him.
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rohit india
Posted at 3:01pm on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
I will love if a girl will hold my di c in her mouth and then mas tur bate at same time she should press my di c head with her teeth a bit hard and then when cu m comes out just get in her mouth and ki ss me swapping it again and again from me to her
any giil just contact me
rohitdey43@gmail.com
rohit india
Posted at 2:59pm on Friday, December 2nd, 2011
I will love if a girl will hold my di c in her mouth and then mas tur bate at same time she should press my di c head with her teeth a bit hard and then when cu m comes out just get in her mouth and ki ss me swapping it again and again from me to her
any giil just contact me
rohitdey43@gmail.com
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yesi phoenix
Posted at 2:03pm on Sunday, April 17th, 2011
Wow icant wait to do this to my bf hhes qanna love this
Salt & Pepper California
Posted at 12:23pm on Tuesday, March 1st, 2011
When I was a young buck, my mature lover (she'd be called a "cougar" now), used to put an arm around me, put a leg over me, and either whisper in my ear all sorts of sweet or dirty things to me, or kiss me while jacking me off. The latter never failed to make me come VERY quickly. I still enjoy having a lover do both of these things.
Mikhail Dworkin BAASFINDER South Africa
Posted at 5:19pm on Friday, February 18th, 2011
I'm gray, and these are all true.
Sean Colorado
Posted at 2:18pm on Thursday, August 12th, 2010
toothpaste = bad bad BAD idea!!! ouchie!!
Andrea US
Posted at 8:02pm on Tuesday, July 20th, 2010
wow my boyfirend will love this
Terry Wales
Posted at 3:59am on Wednesday, June 9th, 2010
Tracy,
Just play about using your softest girliest ones and I am sure he will help you along.
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