Are you having a bit of a time getting men to ask you out? Are you having a bit of a time JUST getting them to notice you?! Ouch!
As surprising as this may sound, EVEN attractive women with a body to match has problems trying to get men to approach them for a date.
Ok, now that is odd!
Actually, it isn't all that hard to put them on your trail.
Do these three things, and you'll definitely notice something different...they'll be following you! Well, hopefully.
ONE:
First off, wear men's most favorite perfumes, which are Candies and White Diamond. Of course there are others, but these two brands seems to be the most popular.
If you are an older woman who is, say, in her forties, yes, Candies is marketed for the younger generation, but men could care less! They love the hint of its sweet scent.
ALWAYS smell nice, even if you are going out for a quick errand!
TWO:
Wear attractive clothes men like. Sundresses, short skirts, tank tops in pretty, solid colors, khakis with a shirt that is in a nice solid bright blue color....
Don't wear any dull or odd-looking colors, like black, brown, dull gray, green....
Just like the perfume, wear these attractive clothes EVERY TIME you go out! Even if it is JUST a quick errand.
Hey, you never know when that right guy will come along, so why not always be prepared to grab his attention?
ALWAYS PUT YOUR BEST FOOT FORWARD!
If you think you aren't that attractive, wearing nice-looking, sexy clothes will help. Don't you think the same can be said for the men? Well, ok, then.
THREE:
And this is the most important!
Men can't read your minds. So, if you are thinking to yourself, "God, I wish he'd come over here to say hello to me." then you need to say it with your eyes. In addition, many people are on the go and they have their minds elsewhere, so you need to sort of slap these guys upside their head.
Yea, yeah, I know, men are always thinking about women, but you'd be surprised that some don't, and if that particular guy you're looking at is one of them, well, you need to make the move.
With every guy you find attractive, position yourself to where you can walk right by him, then get ready to smile and give him that look if he looks at you. If he does, say with your eyes, "Hi, I'm interested in you. Ask me out." You know the look. After doing that, look down and to the side in a shy manner, and then quickly look back at him again, and then back down again. (If you don't know how to do the look, practice it. It ain't hard to do! Geez!)
Immediately look behind you, in case he looks back at you. If he does, give him that same look again, but this time don't look down, just turn your head and keep walking. Looking down for the third time is too much.
It doesn't matter if you aren't shy at all. The action will tell him you are interested. Yes, of course you can simply look him straight in the eye, smile, and say hello, but for some reason men react more to the shy look.
If you're bold enough, try walking right smack into him, then excuse yourself, while giving him that look. Be sure to look back at him with that same look, in case he looks back.
Imagine you doing this wherever you go. ... The grocery store, the mall, out on the street...
And all you have to do is give them that look. That's it!
Do this with as many men as you can, and you'll find your date card filled until you find that right guy for you!
Ok, I know what many of you are thinking: Look, stupid, I'll just walk up to him and introduce myself.
Well, that's ok for you, and you don't have problems getting dates, but just because you can doesn't mean every other woman can. It takes nerves of steel to walk up to complete strangers out in the street, the mall or in the grocery store and say, "Hi, my name is Mary, and I'd love to have a drink with you."
Many men can't even do this because it is too awkward. Being in a nightclub or bar is one thing, but when it's outside those areas, it's like it becomes a totally different world. Men and women who don't have problems approaching each other in bars and nightclubs suddenly clam up when out in the street, or in the grocery store. They're out of their element. Weird, huh?
Many singles think, Well how would this look, me walking up to a stranger out of the blue like this? What would he/she be thinking of me....
There are a lot of people who just can't be that bold, so, for you women who aren't bold, and you're downright shy in this area, this little look you give him is perfect, NO MATTER WHERE YOU ARE!
And remember, many of us, men and women, have our minds on other things, so if it's a Tuesday afternoon and you're at the post office during your lunch hour and you see that guy you'd love to meet, you need to get his mind off of work and / or what he needs to do that day, and start focusing it on you!
About the Author
Perry Rose is the author of Women, Sex and Dating, for the Single Man and I Love You...Will You Marry Me?!. In 1998 he interviewed smart, quality singles and long-married couples who shared what has worked for them. The results became his two books, one of which is in it's 3rd printing and the 2nd in it's 2nd printing.
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Nicole Location unknown
Posted at 9:08am on Wednesday, October 28th, 2009
I would quote all the ways in which this article subtly and not-so-subtly makes men seem superior to women, but I'm fairly certain that these comments have a character limit.
Nevertheless, I am horrified at the strong implication that in order for a woman to get a man she must do everything that men-- seemingly, in this case, the author-- find attractive. This seems to consist mostly of dressing the way that men (supposedly) want you to wear, wearing the perfume that men(supposedly) want you to wear, and acting shy and submissive when catching a man's attention. As far as "short skirts" go, I have little to nothing to say. I think the instruction to wear short skirts or (presumably short) dresses everywhere you go is transparent in its objectification.
I pray that women who read this article are intelligent and self-confident enough to realise what tripe this is.
kat's friend Location unknown
Posted at 10:14pm on Tuesday, October 27th, 2009
i too am appalled at this article! was it written by a 14 year-old girl? seriously now, what kind of world are we living in?
barrack obama
Posted at 11:16pm on Tuesday, June 23rd, 2009
i think the author in mad or mental, it depends on both and it is natural.
gwenaiken spartanburg s.c.
Posted at 12:50am on Wednesday, October 8th, 2008
i learn how to love myself and acceptmyself as iam and im happy with the way i look and iknow that im beautifuland just being myself when it comes to a guy
Maureen Location unknown
Posted at 3:58am on Monday, April 28th, 2008
"Odd-looking colors?" I am a redhead, so green looks great on me, especially a nice kelly green. I have never heard of anyone having a problem with black, as long as you don't wear it too often. Black, brown, and grey and all neutrals that look great when paired with the right colors. If you have a good enough sense of how to coordinate, then you can wear any of those shades well. I also think that short skirts are overrated, at least when they are too short. If you wear a lot of miniskirts you will look common--knee length or slightly above is more feminine, ladylike and flattering.
clare ny
Posted at 4:53pm on Thursday, November 15th, 2007
I think these 3 steps are really going to work.
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